Urban Meyer caught cheating on his wife, issue apology to team in NY Jets Forum Posted October 7, 2021 1 hour ago, New York Mick said: Why is this such a big deal? They’re talking about him losing the locker room or him resigning. Did I miss something? In this day and age what Meyer did shows a complete lack of awareness, professionalism, and commitment. No one cares that he shoved his finger up a girls ass, they care that he was dumb enough to do it in public and embarrass his team. Guy has zero situational awareness and is a horrible leader.