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joewilly12

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  1. Update appraisal done on home seems it’s worth a lot more then I was offered by the devil woman. So she raised her offer $30k so I countered with I want it for for that amount. If we can’t agree on a price it will surely have to be sold. She is livid I’m told her scum lawyer sends email to my lawyer I strongly suggest your client accepts the offer. My guess she’s starting to sweat the fact the inevitable is happening I don’t care she has nowhere to go and will have to look for a place when she lied to have me removed it wasn’t a concern of hers. I treat people like they treat me.
  2. I’m living in hell ...... its hotter than hell here. My former marital home has brand new central air installed last summer. 7 months she’s been stalling the entire divorce process to stay in the home I need want the home sold so I can get some money to survive.
  3. Im not doing anything but sitting back and allowing her to hate on me showing her vindictive true colors. The lawyers decide issues she ignores them or does what she wants. Ive made numerous requests for clothes, shoes,etc all which she has denied even with police civil standby and the agreement we both signed allows it. Im remaining calm and letting her show her anger and need to control everything. She made 1 ridiculous marriage settlement proposal totally lopsided am I supposed to except it put my tail between my legs and walk away.
  4. She purposely wants me to act out and file motions and have my lawyers write letters so she can portray me as the bad person aggressor instigator she has never proven her false allegations against me. We agreed to civil restraints and that's all she has something I should have never done.
  5. She offered me nothing I counter offered with the same offer. She's purposely stalling so she doesn't have to pay me. We don't even have a court date. She thinks she's entitled to the home. Im not giving in giving up. She claims things were so bad yet she wants to keep the home where we raised our family it only exposes more of her lies. I think she might have had some kind of mental breakdown she was always angry vindictive but never nothing like this ever. She wants everyone to think she is so perfect and never did or said anything wrong.
  6. No doubt this evil rotten vindictive person is happy I'm struggling.
  7. She agrees to nothing the lawyers send emails letters back and forth I think situations are resolved and she either ignores them or does what she wants can’t get into details. Her lawyer probably advised her since day 1 sign the restraining order you control the divorce and the home. She’s acting in a manner I’ve never seen in my life and again I’ve known her since she was 14 something isn’t adding up. She’s also telling a lot of lies the biggest disappointment is manipulating both adult children against me. If being a NY Jets fan isn’t tough enough its now fighting the battle of my life with someone I loved for many years.
  8. She refuses to cooperate with anything she tells the lawyers she’s not interested in selling the marital home. She has made a ridiculous offer through a marriage settlement proposal I offered the same amount back in my counter offer. She refused it. The home is paid for the children are adults my understanding is if an agreement cant be reached a judge will rule it be sold that hasn’t happened yet it seems her lawyer is doing everything possible to buy her time in the home. We have an ESP mediation scheduled soon I don’t see it solving much of anything unless it’s her way. I have been cooperative for the most part with everything and anything so far and she seems to be taking full advantage of that but now it’s time to treat her like she’s treated me.
  9. Marriage is over way more than a couple of bucks adding in what she already took which wasn't hers. Not looking for revenge looking for justice.
  10. Will the judge do that? She insists she’s not leaving the marital home and I have no choice in the matter. I don’t even want to attend ESP mediation I dont want to look at this evil woman or be in the same room as her.
  11. It’s no so easy brothers I was born raised here worked here volunteer here even though she destroyed that too. Right now I’m the primary caretaker for my elderly mom who I’m living with I leave she probably dies we have no other family and my wife kids can careless about her even though she helped raise my children and gave them all a lot. Taking her ridiculous offers would be quitting I’m not a quitter she is prolonging the inevitable no judge will allow her to remain in the home if we can’t agree on a number easier to order it sold split profits move on. The week she acted out maybe longer played my wife she in fact snuck to the lawyers office left work early to do it and got her RO advice from him slime ball.. she always said to me you can always trust me ..............
  12. My first attorney gave me very bad legal advice fighting the TRO she dropped we entered into civil restraints bad move. My current attorney won me the PRO trial. She’s being evil vindictive with everything and ignoring attorney agreements . She knows the system is corrupt and her lawyer is a slime ball who knows it too so they use it to keep her in the home and have her not pay me proper pendente lite money. She refused to list and sell the home. Divorce = home sold no minor children she feels she’s above the laws makes good money and can do what she wants she has been for many months. I’m not agreeing to a buyout I want the home listed and bidding to take place sold to the highest bidder she has no right to retain the home because she thinks she’s entitled to it. She also is very upset about having to pay me pension alimony 401k too damn bad she chose to file restraining orders and file for divorce not me. She didn’t deserve the love I gave her for all those years she’s a rotten angry miserable woman
  13. My first attorney gave me very bad legal advice fighting the TRO she dropped we entered into civil restraints bad move. My current attorney won me the PRO trial. She’s being evil vindictive with everything and ignoring attorney agreements . She knows the system is corrupt and her lawyer is a slime ball who knows it too so they use it to keep her in the home and have her not pay me proper pendente lite money. She refused to list and sell the home. Divorce = home sold no minor children she feels she’s above the laws makes good money and can do what she wants she has been for many months. I’m not agreeing to a buyout I want the home listed and bidding to take place sold to the highest bidder she has no right to retain the home because she thinks she’s entitled to it. She also is very upset about having to pay me pension alimony 401k too damn bad she chose to file restraining orders and file for divorce not me. She didn’t deserve the love I gave her for all those years she’s a rotten angry miserable woman
  14. No settling with her unless I want to take her ridiculous proposals none benefit me. Our home is paid for no debt adult children she wants the home for nothing and had mentioned to others it’s her trophy to show everyone she could do it all without me. She’s a person who is all about her image and what others think. I miss her because I loved her and was blindsided by all this we both had our faults but there was no reason to do what she did. She did it to establish control of the home and to make me look like the bad guy her the innocent poor victim. She definitely lied and abused the restraining order process and she knows it.
  15. Im hurting like nobody knows I miss my wife my children my home. I can't eat cant sleep cant function. How does a person hurt someone like this after all the years we were together.
  16. Nothing I posted got the thread deleted just need to be careful it’s social media.
  17. Been absent from the forum for awhile missing all of you. I appreciate the suggestions thoughts and prayers. Im in for a fight of my life it seems with a woman I loved and I spent my entire life with she's out to destroy me emotionally and financially. Need to be careful what I post. Thanks
  18. Please no private messages appreciate all of you but they go to a shared access email account and this may cause me some issues. Thanks joewilly12
  19. ***Dudes/Dudettes/Duds*** I appreciate the kind words and the thoughts good or bad. Im having some health issues on the mend hopefully and some really serious private personal family issues that I need prayers they get fixed. I made some mistakes and haven’t been the best person I could be towards my wife and son. Hopefully with the grace of God and the best wife anyone could ever ask for this all gets straightened out soon. Miss you all just can’t spend the time here like I used to. Need to fix me and my situation I’m in all my fault.
  20. You wish I was bi-curious give it a rest me and you are so not happening even if you get that sex change you promised in the PM.
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