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  1. Update appraisal done on home seems it’s worth a lot more then I was offered by the devil woman. So she raised her offer $30k so I countered with I want it for for that amount. If we can’t agree on a price it will surely have to be sold. She is livid I’m told her scum lawyer sends email to my lawyer I strongly suggest your client accepts the offer. My guess she’s starting to sweat the fact the inevitable is happening I don’t care she has nowhere to go and will have to look for a place when she lied to have me removed it wasn’t a concern of hers. I treat people like they treat me. 

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  2. 51 minutes ago, Waka Flocka Flacco said:

    She wants you to act out and file motions and have your lawyers write letters so she can ultimately argue to the Court that you were the one who unnecessarily increased the time and expense of the divorce and that you should therefore bear that cost, the result of which being an allocation of the marital estate that gets her what she wants.

    It is not going to be some insane travesty miscarriage of justice or anybody else's fault when this winds up where it's obviously headed.

    Im not doing anything but sitting back and allowing her to hate on me showing her vindictive true colors. 

    The lawyers decide issues she ignores them or does what she wants. 

    Ive made numerous requests for clothes, shoes,etc all which she has denied even with police civil standby and the agreement we both signed allows it. 

    Im remaining calm and letting her show her anger and need to control everything.

    She made 1 ridiculous marriage settlement proposal totally lopsided am I supposed to except it put my tail between my legs and walk away.

  3. 2 hours ago, Waka Flocka Flacco said:

    There's two sides of the coin. She's sticking to her position notwithstanding the likely ultimate outcome, but it doesn't especially sound like she's trying to waste a bunch of everyone's time and money going back and forth about it in the meantime.

    She purposely wants me to act out and file motions and have my lawyers write letters so she can portray me as the bad person aggressor instigator she has never proven her false allegations against me. 

    We agreed to civil restraints and that's all she has something I should have never done. 

  4. 5 hours ago, HighPitch said:

    Get the word back to her through attorneys that you either want to sell the home now while prices are high and split it 50/50 or she can buy you out. Let it be clear that if there is no agreement, There is no more discussions and you will be going to court. No more mediation. 

    She should know that a court trial will be super expensive and a lot of that money will be taken by the lawyers. In the end, that house is going to be sold. Does she want 50% NOW while the market is hot or 50% later when the crash comes minus 50-100k thaT SHE WILL owe her lawyer?

     

    She is dumb not to agree now. But if she does not come around, no more contact just go to court.

    Feel bad for you. The NY NJ system is such that it will take forever to resolve this and only the lawyers will be winners. Another reason to move down south

    She offered me nothing I counter offered with the same offer. She's purposely stalling so she doesn't have to pay me. 

    We don't even have a court date. She thinks she's entitled to the home. Im not giving in giving up. 

    She claims things were so bad yet she wants to keep the home where we raised our family it only exposes more of her lies. 

    I think she might have had some kind of mental breakdown she was always angry vindictive but never nothing like this ever. 

    She wants everyone to think she is so perfect and never did or said anything wrong. 

  5. She agrees to nothing the lawyers send emails letters back and forth I think situations are resolved and she either ignores them or does what she wants can’t get into details. 
    Her lawyer probably advised her since day 1 sign the restraining order you control the divorce and the home. She’s acting in a manner I’ve never seen in my life and again I’ve known her since she  was 14 something isn’t adding up. She’s also telling a lot of lies the biggest disappointment is manipulating both adult children against me.

    If being a NY Jets fan isn’t tough enough its now fighting the battle of my life with someone I loved for many years. 

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  6. 8 hours ago, HighPitch said:

    The point here is there is law. From what you say, the home will be sold and split 50/50.

    It doesnt matter what she says. She cant just keep the house

    She refuses to cooperate with anything she tells the lawyers she’s not interested in selling the marital home. She has made a ridiculous offer through a marriage settlement proposal I offered the same amount back in my counter offer. She refused it. 
    The home is paid for the children are adults my understanding is if an agreement cant be reached a judge will rule it be sold that hasn’t happened yet it seems her lawyer is doing everything possible to buy her time in the home. We have an ESP mediation scheduled soon I don’t see it solving much of anything unless it’s her way. 
    I have been cooperative for the most part with everything and anything so far and she seems to be taking full advantage of that but now it’s time to treat her like she’s treated me. 

  7. 11 hours ago, Biggs said:

    Not only should you take your lawyers advice, you should stay out of the settlement negotiations and let them negotiate it.   Get it over and move on.  Life is short and your pain and desire for revenge and a sense of equity is a complete waste of time.  

    Your marriage is over.  It’s your choice on how you want to live and enjoy the rest o your life.  A couple of bucks either way is meaningless.  

    Marriage is over way more than a couple of bucks adding in what she already took which wasn't hers. 

    Not looking for revenge looking for justice. 

  8. 40 minutes ago, HighPitch said:

    Joewilly youre being a little ridiculous.

    if the kids are grown and the house is paid and little debt, the judge is going to split it 50/50. Why are you worried about what “she wants”?

    Will the judge do that? She insists she’s not leaving the marital home and I have no choice in the matter. I don’t even want to attend ESP mediation I dont want to look at this evil woman or be in the same room as her. 

  9. It’s no so easy brothers I was born raised here worked here volunteer here even though she destroyed that too. Right now I’m the primary caretaker for my elderly mom who I’m living with I leave she probably dies we have no other family and my wife kids can careless about her even though she helped raise my children and gave them all a lot. 
    Taking her ridiculous offers would be quitting I’m not a quitter she is prolonging the inevitable no judge will allow her to remain in the home if we can’t agree on a number easier to order it sold split profits move on. 
    The week she acted out maybe longer played my wife she in fact snuck to the lawyers office left work early to do it and got her RO advice from him slime ball.. she always said to me you can always trust me ..............

  10. 7 hours ago, chirorob said:

    Hire attorney

    Listen to them

    My first attorney gave me very bad legal advice fighting the TRO she dropped we entered into civil restraints bad move. My current attorney won me the PRO trial. She’s being evil vindictive with everything and ignoring attorney agreements .  She knows the system is corrupt and her lawyer is a slime ball who knows it too so they use it to keep her in the home and have her not pay me proper pendente lite money. She refused to list and sell the home. Divorce = home sold no minor children she feels she’s above the laws makes good money and can do what she wants she has been for many months. I’m not agreeing to a buyout I want the home listed and bidding to take place sold to the highest bidder she has no right to retain the home because she thinks she’s entitled to it.  She also is very upset about having to pay me pension alimony  401k too damn bad she chose to file restraining orders and file for divorce not me.  She didn’t deserve the love I gave her for all those years she’s a rotten angry miserable woman 

  11. 4 hours ago, chirorob said:

    Hire attorney

    Listen to them

    My first attorney gave me very bad legal advice fighting the TRO she dropped we entered into civil restraints bad move. My current attorney won me the PRO trial. She’s being evil vindictive with everything and ignoring attorney agreements .  She knows the system is corrupt and her lawyer is a slime ball who knows it too so they use it to keep her in the home and have her not pay me proper pendente lite money. She refused to list and sell the home. Divorce = home sold no minor children she feels she’s above the laws makes good money and can do what she wants she has been for many months. I’m not agreeing to a buyout I want the home listed and bidding to take place sold to the highest bidder she has no right to retain the home because she thinks she’s entitled to it.  She also is very upset about having to pay me pension alimony  401k too damn bad she chose to file restraining orders and file for divorce not me.  She didn’t deserve the love I gave her for all those years she’s a rotten angry miserable woman 

  12. No settling with her unless I want to take her ridiculous proposals none benefit me. Our home is paid for no debt adult children she wants the home for nothing and had mentioned to others it’s her trophy to show everyone she could do it all without me. She’s a person who is all about her image and what others think.  I miss her because I loved her and was blindsided by all this we both had our faults but there was no reason to do what she did. She did it to establish control of the home and to make me look like the bad guy her the innocent poor victim. She definitely lied and abused the restraining order process and she knows it. 

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