slats Posted December 20, 2015 Share Posted December 20, 2015 Just so sad for you. Devastating. My deepest sympathies. You're in my thoughts. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TaborJet Posted December 20, 2015 Share Posted December 20, 2015 I'm so sorry for you and your family. She will live forever in your heart. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
adb280z Posted December 21, 2015 Share Posted December 21, 2015 I'm so sorry to hear about your little girl. My deepest condolences to you and your wife. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Green DNA Posted December 21, 2015 Share Posted December 21, 2015 I cannot begin to imagine your pain. My deepest condolences and I hope that you and your wife can find a way to get through this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TuscanyTile2 Posted December 21, 2015 Share Posted December 21, 2015 I am so incredibly sorry to hear this. I don't know you other than on this forum but please accept my deepest condolences. I recently had a death in the family as well so I have some idea of your pain. I wish you the best and will put you in my thoughts. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
T0mShane Posted December 21, 2015 Share Posted December 21, 2015 Holy Christ. God bless you and your family, Jason. My condolences to you and all of them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fishooked Posted December 22, 2015 Share Posted December 22, 2015 Thank you everyone for the kind words. Every little bit helps comfort my wife & i. Every day is empty, but we're doing the best we can. If anyone is interested, I will post the link to her obituary. Also, we ask that if anyone is interested, there is information in the link on how to make a donation to the Waltham YMCA Preschool program here in Massachusetts. She spent 3 days a week there and loved her home away from home. There are many needy kids in our town who could use some help getting the daycare they need and I hope to set up a memorial fund in Melinda's honor. http://joycefuneralhome.tributes.com/obituary/show/Melinda-Wichern-103113673 Thank you all. Every little but of love and kind words help me get through the day. Jason I'm not afraid to admit that I am a mess after reading that and going through those adorable pictures, no one can possibly imagine what you and yours are going through. Best wishes to you in this very difficult chapter in your lives. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joewilly12 Posted December 22, 2015 Share Posted December 22, 2015 Deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family words cannot express how sad this is. Stay strong and keep the faith in the Lord for he has a plan for all of us. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lil Bit Special Posted December 23, 2015 Author Share Posted December 23, 2015 Thank you everyone for the kind words and sympathy. Writing about my little girl is going to be a part of my therapy. The wake and funeral are now behind us and now we begin the process of coming to terms with it and trying to find meaning and purpose in our lives. I could write paragraphs about what a smile she had, what a personality she had, how she never seemed angry or sad. How she brought happiness and smiles to everyone who knew her. How she loved everyone, never afraid to meet new people, always offering a smile to them. But all that writing couldnt accurately describe the impact one child had in a short 19 months of life. She was everything I could have ever hoped for in a daughter, and she did more for me in 19 months than I could have ever imagined. I wish I had more time. I wish I could share in life's milestones with her. But sadly that will never happen. And thats ok. Never be afraid to love. Never be afraid to cry. I Love You Baby Girl. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PatsFanTX Posted December 23, 2015 Share Posted December 23, 2015 Thank you everyone for the kind words. Every little bit helps comfort my wife & i. Every day is empty, but we're doing the best we can. If anyone is interested, I will post the link to her obituary. Also, we ask that if anyone is interested, there is information in the link on how to make a donation to the Waltham YMCA Preschool program here in Massachusetts. She spent 3 days a week there and loved her home away from home. There are many needy kids in our town who could use some help getting the daycare they need and I hope to set up a memorial fund in Melinda's honor. http://joycefuneralhome.tributes.com/obituary/show/Melinda-Wichern-103113673 Thank you all. Every little but of love and kind words help me get through the day. Jason I couldn't even finish reading the obituary. I can't imagine the pain you and your wife are experiencing. My deepest condolences on your loss. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SMC Posted December 23, 2015 Share Posted December 23, 2015 That's staggeringly awful, Jason. I'm so sorry for your loss. My prayers are to you and your wife. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HessStation Posted December 23, 2015 Share Posted December 23, 2015 My deepest deepest condolences Jason. I am truly so sorry. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
greenwichjetfan Posted December 23, 2015 Share Posted December 23, 2015 Thank you everyone for the kind words and sympathy. Writing about my little girl is going to be a part of my therapy. The wake and funeral are now behind us and now we begin the process of coming to terms with it and trying to find meaning and purpose in our lives. I could write paragraphs about what a smile she had, what a personality she had, how she never seemed angry or sad. How she brought happiness and smiles to everyone who knew her. How she loved everyone, never afraid to meet new people, always offering a smile to them. But all that writing couldnt accurately describe the impact one child had in a short 19 months of life. She was everything I could have ever hoped for in a daughter, and she did more for me in 19 months than I could have ever imagined. I wish I had more time. I wish I could share in life's milestones with her. But sadly that will never happen. And thats ok. Never be afraid to love. Never be afraid to cry. I Love You Baby Girl. It's not fair that you and your wife had to go through this. It's not fair to any parent to ever have to go through it. And it's only ok because of your strength and the strength and support of your loved ones. But mostly, it's ok because you were fortunate to experience the type of life-making, unbridled happiness which you described in that paragraph. Condolences, strength, and everlasting good thoughts to you, your wife, and your forever baby girl. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Section 333 Posted December 24, 2015 Share Posted December 24, 2015 I am so sorry to hear this. I can't possibly imagine the pain. You and your family are very much in my thoughts. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Warfish Posted December 24, 2015 Share Posted December 24, 2015 I have no words. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
batman10023 Posted January 22, 2016 Share Posted January 22, 2016 I'm not afraid to admit that I am a mess after reading that and going through those adorable pictures, no one can possibly imagine what you and yours are going through. Best wishes to you in this very difficult chapter in your lives. I admit it also. I have a 2 1/2 year old daughter and I can't imagine the pain. mu thoughts are with you and your family. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dcat Posted January 22, 2016 Share Posted January 22, 2016 Yesterday my 19 month old daughter Melinda passed away. I am broken. Please give your kids a hug and a kiss and tell them you love them. Jason Wichern My wife Denise and I wish to send you and your family the deepest condolences on this sad occasion. May Melinda rest in peace. God bless. David Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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