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45 minutes ago, TNJet said:

Was it a collective agreement to end it man? Or moreso one sided?

Blindsided more like it divorce never mentioned.... she caught me totally off guard involved some legal stuff which I completely prevailed on in court... it was all about revenge punishment she’s a very vindictive woman full of hate hurt ... she was always cold hearted but never like this to me anyway .... we were best friends together for a longtime.... we have only talked 3 times in 15 months ... she’s guilty hiding something .....I think an affair 

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3 minutes ago, joewilly12 said:

Blindsided more like it divorce never mentioned.... she caught me totally off guard involved some legal stuff which I completely prevailed on in court... it was all about revenge punishment she’s a very vindictive woman full of hate hurt ... she was always cold hearted but never like this to me anyway .... we were best friends together for a longtime.... we have only talked 3 times in 15 months ... she’s guilty hiding something .....I think an affair 

Def someone else. Thats the only reason women decide to change their thought process or stop feeling the same way about their mates, when they have someone else to go to. Sad but true man. I'm sorry...

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4 minutes ago, TNJet said:

Def someone else. Thats the only reason women decide to change their thought process or stop feeling the same way about their mates, when they have someone else to go to. Sad but true man. I'm sorry...

Thank you brother ... it is what it is .... a leopard never changes its spots and if she treated me poorly she will certainly continue that trend with someone else or maybe not .... I figured she was having an affair awhile ago but she hid it so well ... I’m sure it’s someone she works with met through work or could easily be anyone her attitude changed for me like she flipped a switch and she checked out awhile ago.... 

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10 minutes ago, joewilly12 said:

Blindsided more like it divorce never mentioned.... she caught me totally off guard involved some legal stuff which I completely prevailed on in court... it was all about revenge punishment she’s a very vindictive woman full of hate hurt ... she was always cold hearted but never like this to me anyway .... we were best friends together for a longtime.... we have only talked 3 times in 15 months ... she’s guilty hiding something .....I think an affair 

That's like there's this 28 year old hottie that follows me around daily at work. She knows I'm married and I know she lives with her boyfriend whom she has a 5 year old son with. Sometimes women are confusing. Many times I go into work telling myself stay away from her and don't chat with her every day neither of us are single. She will HUNT me down to say hello. If I do make it through a day avoiding her she will more so hunt me down the next day saying where have you been? Why didn't you speak yesterday?? Acting sadly disappointed. Its like wtf man, I'm married. I mean what does she even want or think?

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44 minutes ago, joewilly12 said:

Blindsided more like it divorce never mentioned.... she caught me totally off guard involved some legal stuff which I completely prevailed on in court... it was all about revenge punishment she’s a very vindictive woman full of hate hurt ... she was always cold hearted but never like this to me anyway .... we were best friends together for a longtime.... we have only talked 3 times in 15 months ... she’s guilty hiding something .....I think an affair 

See, I know nothing we can say will cheer you up or make you feel much better but try and look at the bright side of the single life. Maybe Jet games with the guys, poker games...Guys nights out at sports bars to watch sports? Strip club? Haha Lots of things maybe you can do now that a married guy can't do much of....

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3 minutes ago, TNJet said:

See, I know nothing we can say will cheer you up or make you feel much better but try and look at the bright side of the single life. Maybe Jet games with the guys, poker games...Guys nights out at sports bars to watch sports? Strip club? Haha Lots of things maybe you can do now that a married guy can't do much of....

Sadly a lot of my friends are no more and some have taken her side childhood friends ... she set it all up so they would feel sorry for her and then their are the wives who she hated most of them but now is best of friends with them..... sh*t can’t get any worse for me ....

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6 minutes ago, joewilly12 said:

Sadly a lot of my friends are no more and some have taken her side childhood friends ... she set it all up so they would feel sorry for her and then their are the wives who she hated most of them but now is best of friends with them..... sh*t can’t get any worse for me ....

Thats crazy and more difficult to even deal with. Whats your advice on my weird situation I mentioned?

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21 minutes ago, joewilly12 said:

Sadly a lot of my friends are no more and some have taken her side childhood friends ... she set it all up so they would feel sorry for her and then their are the wives who she hated most of them but now is best of friends with them..... sh*t can’t get any worse for me ....

Any siblings you can hangout with? Brothers? Cousins?

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1 minute ago, joewilly12 said:

Don't jeopardize a good marriage 

Nope none

Oh trust me I won't. I just don't get why an attractive young woman would be like that considering the facts/circumstance. Just an attention seeker? A cheater herself? Home wrecker? IDK. 

 

Sorry man, I'll be here for you anytime you want to vent or talk. :)

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7 minutes ago, TNJet said:

Oh trust me I won't. I just don't get why an attractive young woman would be like that considering the facts/circumstance. Just an attention seeker? A cheater herself? Home wrecker? IDK. 

 

Sorry man, I'll be here for you anytime you want to vent or talk. :)

Thank you ...... 

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On 12/29/2022 at 12:58 PM, joewilly12 said:

Blindsided more like it divorce never mentioned.... she caught me totally off guard involved some legal stuff which I completely prevailed on in court... it was all about revenge punishment she’s a very vindictive woman full of hate hurt ... she was always cold hearted but never like this to me anyway .... we were best friends together for a longtime.... we have only talked 3 times in 15 months ... she’s guilty hiding something .....I think an affair 

This was me, man. I watched this woman accuse each of her parents, siblings, and friends of attacking her -and me taking her side most of the time- only to one day be the one getting served papers. We do not talk at all. Don’t talk (too, lol) bad about her in front of our adult kids, really do wish her well, but being free of that negativity has been a ****ing gift. 
 
Oh, and she was cheating on me. With another woman! ?

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2 hours ago, slats said:

This was me, man. I watched this woman accuse each of her parents, siblings, and friends of attacking her -and me taking her side most of the time- only to one day be the one getting served papers. We do not talk at all. Don’t talk (too, lol) bad about her in front of our adult kids, really do wish her well, but being free of that negativity has been a ****ing gift. 
 
Oh, and she was cheating on me. With another woman! ?

Sorry brother ... this sicko used false lies revenge restraining orders ... denied in court.... all to try get control of divorce... I will never talk to her as long as I live .... she manipulated adult kids till this day buys them to hate me....I think she might have cheated ... not sure with man or woman ... she has a really fat friend she’s been into for years .... she was dead lame in bed anyway... I bought her Victoria’s Secret she wore fruit of the loom old ladies panties .... 

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4 hours ago, Maxman said:

Damn man, sorry. You doing okay?

I’m getting rocked by covid and a viral infection no taste no smell... I contracted covid at a sleaze ball Dr.s office in New Brunswick NJ examination for divorce proceedings it’s amazing how a scumbag lawyer can dictate the narrative try make you prove everything for a settlement ... I’ve never been this sick in my life.

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On 1/3/2023 at 5:41 AM, joewilly12 said:

I’m getting rocked by covid and a viral infection no taste no smell... I contracted covid at a sleaze ball Dr.s office in New Brunswick NJ examination for divorce proceedings it’s amazing how a scumbag lawyer can dictate the narrative try make you prove everything for a settlement ... I’ve never been this sick in my life.

Sorry kid. Listen, buy some wasabi peas and hot sauce and horseradish. Put it on everything you eat. Bought my taste and smell back in 3-4 weeks.

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I know you’re not going to believe this, Joe, but it sounds to me like things are getting better for you. Except the Covid thing of course but that will pass. You don’t sound as out of it as he was in the beginning plus now that that house is being sold way faster than you thought you’re going to get yourself a nice chunk of money to free yourself to do something new and fresh 

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On 12/29/2022 at 12:14 PM, TNJet said:

That's like there's this 28 year old hottie that follows me around daily at work. She knows I'm married and I know she lives with her boyfriend whom she has a 5 year old son with. Sometimes women are confusing. Many times I go into work telling myself stay away from her and don't chat with her every day neither of us are single. She will HUNT me down to say hello. If I do make it through a day avoiding her she will more so hunt me down the next day saying where have you been? Why didn't you speak yesterday?? Acting sadly disappointed. Its like wtf man, I'm married. I mean what does she even want or think?

I believe every woman wants me too, but unlike you I'm not imagining it. 

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On 12/29/2022 at 1:10 PM, joewilly12 said:

Thank you brother ... it is what it is .... a leopard never changes its spots and if she treated me poorly she will certainly continue that trend with someone else or maybe not .... I figured she was having an affair awhile ago but she hid it so well ... I’m sure it’s someone she works with met through work or could easily be anyone her attitude changed for me like she flipped a switch and she checked out awhile ago.... 

that’s what happened in my marriage.  So much happier now not being married.  You are going to be fine.

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On 12/29/2022 at 1:14 PM, TNJet said:

That's like there's this 28 year old hottie that follows me around daily at work. She knows I'm married and I know she lives with her boyfriend whom she has a 5 year old son with. Sometimes women are confusing. Many times I go into work telling myself stay away from her and don't chat with her every day neither of us are single. She will HUNT me down to say hello. If I do make it through a day avoiding her she will more so hunt me down the next day saying where have you been? Why didn't you speak yesterday?? Acting sadly disappointed. Its like wtf man, I'm married. I mean what does she even want or think?

Be careful man women like that will wreck your life...major red flags guaranteed bunny boiler.

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5 minutes ago, TNJet said:

Whats a bunny boiler? oh haha fatal attraction?

haha yeah those type of girls who love bomb you can turn on a dime....dealt with a few in my younger days once had a women stalking and sitting outside my house. lol

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