Brenjetsfan Posted November 11, 2006 Share Posted November 11, 2006 so here goes... male or female????......your married 10 years....you travel all over the world for your career.....you have 20+ years invested in your pension......you meet the PERSON of your dreams ...even thought you an your spouse have not had physical realations..(so U SAY).....the 3rd person finds out about the spouse...calls them to concur (its true they took a VOW).....the guilty party SWEARS they LOVE you....but god forbid the LOVING faithful spouse finds out the real truth because U (the gulity party) may LOSE 20+ years of pension..... as the 3rd party... DO YOU.... a).....call an make sure all parties know the whats going on? ....ignore everything an move on??? c).....set them up to be found GUILTY??? or D) the 3rd party who was innocent an knew NOTHING...call AGAIN the poor innocent spouse at home to MAKE sure the cheating spouse's other knows EVERTHING even after the fact ??? or let the cheating lying scumbag DOG/beeotch live with the fact they are going to HELL? FUN FUN FUN on the LAND of OZ................. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maxman Posted November 11, 2006 Share Posted November 11, 2006 Bren, We are going to have to start prefacing your posts with legal disclaimers! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gainzo Posted November 11, 2006 Share Posted November 11, 2006 Bren, We are going to have to start prefacing your posts with legal disclaimers! Agree mate! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joebabyny Posted November 11, 2006 Share Posted November 11, 2006 so here goes... male or female????......your married 10 years....you travel all over the world for your career.....you have 20+ years invested in your pension......you meet the PERSON of your dreams ...even thought you an your spouse have not had physical realations..(so U SAY).....the 3rd person finds out about the spouse...calls them to concur (its true they took a VOW).....the guilty party SWEARS they LOVE you....but god forbid the LOVING faithful spouse finds out the real truth because U (the gulity party) may LOSE 20+ years of pension..... as the 3rd party... DO YOU.... a).....call an make sure all parties know the whats going on? ....ignore everything an move on??? c).....set them up to be found GUILTY??? or D) the 3rd party who was innocent an knew NOTHING...call AGAIN the poor innocent spouse at home to MAKE sure the cheating spouse's other knows EVERTHING even after the fact ??? or let the cheating lying scumbag DOG/beeotch live with the fact they are going to HELL? FUN FUN FUN on the LAND of OZ................. You EFFING HOMEWRECKER!!! HAHA, just kidding!! Don't really have any advice though, other then my standard, "Life is only complicated if we chose to make it so." This is complicated, move on and kiss the next frog. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gainzo Posted November 11, 2006 Share Posted November 11, 2006 You EFFING HOMEWRECKER!!! HAHA, just kidding!! Don't really have any advice though, other then my standard, "Life is only complicated if we chose to make it so." This is complicated, move on and kiss the next frog. You are a bastard. A good bastard! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GREENSMACKS Posted November 11, 2006 Share Posted November 11, 2006 how about E. convince all parties to turn mormon and have a threesome and live happily ever after Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
war ensemble Posted November 11, 2006 Share Posted November 11, 2006 how about E. convince all parties to turn mormon and have a threesome and live happily ever after I believe E. might be a good choice Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Verde Posted November 11, 2006 Share Posted November 11, 2006 If I read that passage correct, you already called his spouse. Therefore, I would just move on, Bren. Final answer is 'B'. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Green DNA Posted November 11, 2006 Share Posted November 11, 2006 My eyes glazed over after two sentences or so. I think the right answer is that I would just enjoy the physical pleasure at my convenience and kick said person the curb when I was done with them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Garb Posted November 11, 2006 Share Posted November 11, 2006 If I read that passage correct, you already called his spouse. Therefore, I would just move on, Bren. Final answer is 'B'. Agreed. At some point it becomes self-destructive. Just move on. Easier said than done, I'm sure. I would find comfort in knowing that bad things do happen to bad people eventually. And, remember, the best revenge is feeling good, looking good and being really happy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vanDoug Posted November 11, 2006 Share Posted November 11, 2006 Bren, Meeting the person of your dreams isn't something that happens to a lot of people. 20 years of pension is nothing compared to being with that person. If it's real. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joewilly Posted November 11, 2006 Share Posted November 11, 2006 so here goes... male or female????......your married 10 years....you travel all over the world for your career.....you have 20+ years invested in your pension......you meet the PERSON of your dreams ...even thought you an your spouse have not had physical realations..(so U SAY).....the 3rd person finds out about the spouse...calls them to concur (its true they took a VOW).....the guilty party SWEARS they LOVE you....but god forbid the LOVING faithful spouse finds out the real truth because U (the gulity party) may LOSE 20+ years of pension..... as the 3rd party... DO YOU.... a).....call an make sure all parties know the whats going on? ....ignore everything an move on??? c).....set them up to be found GUILTY??? or D) the 3rd party who was innocent an knew NOTHING...call AGAIN the poor innocent spouse at home to MAKE sure the cheating spouse's other knows EVERTHING even after the fact ??? or let the cheating lying scumbag DOG/beeotch live with the fact they are going to HELL? FUN FUN FUN on the LAND of OZ................. I'm not crystal clear what this about bren but seriously, I played tennis, went to bradens for pizza & then went home i'm gonna go with b Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JetFanByMarriage Posted November 11, 2006 Share Posted November 11, 2006 Brenda, you are a sweet,caring, beautiful lady and deserve someone who will treat you with respect and love. Do not let this sittuation get the best of you and bring you down or change you. Kill them with kindness, it works much better then revenge and brings you some peace too. BTW, your match.com date sounded like it was very nice. I wish you luck. Maybe he is Mr Right! There is one out there for you!!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boozer76 Posted November 11, 2006 Share Posted November 11, 2006 If you are friends with the unsuspecting spouse of the marriage, it is your duty as a friend to tell him/her. If you are friends with the guilty spouse, tell him/her how you feel about what they are doing and then stay out. If you are friends with both, then you really have to decide which one you like more as a friend if they were split up and then follow the above rules. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jetophile Posted November 12, 2006 Share Posted November 12, 2006 That completely confused me. He's a bigamist? And, why would you lose your pension? I admit I got lost. Sometimes love goes beyond what's good or bad. Do you really know what the situation is at home? Should there still be honor among thieves in situations like this? I think that all depends. Maybe his marriage is loveless, which doesn't make it right by any means; but if it is, you should have been told so you could make an informed decision. I do fault him there. It always seems best to go for someone without strings attached. Now that you know there are, I'd say move along. Sometimes moving on is the only way to validate your unhappiness. And it's the best revenge. A healthy and unharmful one without hurtful intent. Everybody wins, and your dignity remains intact. Or is reclaimed. You'd only feel worse about yourself otherwise, and you're obviously hurt over it right now. Option B, geben ihm die Aufladung. Sometimes German just works. Hehe. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joebabyny Posted November 12, 2006 Share Posted November 12, 2006 You are a bastard. A good bastard! hey man, it ain't EZ bein' CHEEZEE Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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jetophile Posted November 12, 2006 Share Posted November 12, 2006 Hahaha, good show. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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