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Some hottie comes in to look for job. Shes really qualified and shes looking for something in Marketing. Unfortunately i tell her our Mrkt. dept was dissolved but i told her fill out an application anyway. After she was done i had gone out of my way to hook her up with a few numbers of other facilities that she might be able to score a job at and i also gave her my sisters number who just recently became the Mrkting Manager at a symphony theater on the beach. I told her to hit her up in case she needs an assistant. I also gave her my cell number and told her to call in case she couldnt find anything. She had just moved down from Deleware and found a place in South Beach. She seemed super friendly and not just fake friendly cause we started a conversation about her apt. and how she got it. there was a bunch of people coming in and out behind me so i had to slick about telling her to call me. i couldnt just flat out say hey give me a ring if you ever want to hang out cause i could get fired (i got in trouble once before for telling some lady she was pretty). Anyway my question is, i totally snagged her phone number from the application and im thinking of calling her to not only find out if she called my sister and was able to find something but also to obviously eventually ask her out. I AM HORRIBLY SHY WHEN IT COMES TO WOMEN. i have the worse luck and for how nice i am and treat all girls i never get anywhere. Is that appropriate of me to call her. I figured i can man up and tell her i was curious to see how she made out and maybe have a cup of coffee. Im thinking since she just moved down she prolly doesnt know many people and she was super attractive at least to me. Sorry for getting all emo and **** but my roomie told me it was a bad idea but couldnt give me a reason why. i'm thinking he was just being retarded cause he is someone that would never have the guts to do that.

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Some hottie comes in to look for job. Shes really qualified and shes looking for something in Marketing. Unfortunately i tell her our Mrkt. dept was dissolved but i told her fill out an application anyway. After she was done i had gone out of my way to hook her up with a few numbers of other facilities that she might be able to score a job at and i also gave her my sisters number who just recently became the Mrkting Manager at a symphony theater on the beach. I told her to hit her up in case she needs an assistant. I also gave her my cell number and told her to call in case she couldnt find anything. She had just moved down from Deleware and found a place in South Beach. She seemed super friendly and not just fake friendly cause we started a conversation about her apt. and how she got it. there was a bunch of people coming in and out behind me so i had to slick about telling her to call me. i couldnt just flat out say hey give me a ring if you ever want to hang out cause i could get fired (i got in trouble once before for telling some lady she was pretty). Anyway my question is, i totally snagged her phone number from the application and im thinking of calling her to not only find out if she called my sister and was able to find something but also to obviously eventually ask her out. I AM HORRIBLY SHY WHEN IT COMES TO WOMEN. i have the worse luck and for how nice i am and treat all girls i never get anywhere. Is that appropriate of me to call her. I figured i can man up and tell her i was curious to see how she made out and maybe have a cup of coffee. Im thinking since she just moved down she prolly doesnt know many people and she was super attractive at least to me. Sorry for getting all emo and **** but my roomie told me it was a bad idea but couldnt give me a reason why. i'm thinking he was just being retarded cause he is someone that would never have the guts to do that.

I have battled with my shyness with the fairer sex as well so i dig on what you are saying, and generally i would say nothing ventured is nothing gained, but this is different. She came to you or your company in a professional capacity, and left her number on an application, not your palm, lol. A lot of girls would view it as creepy or stalkerish, and some even to the point of making a complaint to your boss. Sounds like you were a gentleman giving here help that was beyond the call of duty, and you slid her your number and your sister's number. I am sure she took the hint on the advances. Thing is, maybe she is very concerned with finding a job and probably not interesting in dating guys at the places she is trying to get a job at. I would say at this point ya gotta wait it out and either she calls you or maybe calls your sister and gets something going there. what i would do is call your sister, give her the heads up, and beg her to hook this girl up with a job so that there are open lines of communication and possibilities for meetings and encounters through your sis.

Whatever the case, you may be opening yourself up to trouble with copping the number from an application. And dude, you sound like you were a good guy, don't go overboard, remember that scene in tommy boy where he talks about sales like pets and how he crushes it in the end, the same thing is the nice guy's classic mistake. Be cool, be a gentleman, be nice, but don't let the girl smell a hint of despiration, they are like blood hounds with that smell.

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Giving her the option to call you is the best choice, calling her off of her application isn't the best idea. There are probally only a small percentage of women who would appreciate the invasion of privacy.

If she liked you, she will call you. Otherwise, Maybe send her a business card with your number and various activities, i hear that works ;)

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Giving her the option to call you is the best choice, calling her off of her application isn't the best idea. There are probally only a small percentage of women who would appreciate the invasion of privacy.

If she liked you, she will call you. Otherwise, Maybe send her a business card with your number and various activities, i hear that works ;)

along those lines, i was going to suggest to him not to call her, but to use his cell phone to videotape him busting some fresh dance moves and send that video to her phone, hey, it worked for that short mexi-asian kid with the faggy emo-ish hair in that cell phone commercial, that kid got like 12 prom dates!

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Thanks for the heads up. I'll wait it out. I know what you are all saying about the application, to be honest its something i wouldve never seen myself do which is why i had to bring it up with somebody. She just seemed really nice, she was totally my type and i never had a chance to outright say 'hey if you ever want to hang out hit me up'. Well i did my part, if she calls she calls, if not ce la vi. Thanks for the input peepes.:Typotux::)

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Thanks for the heads up. I'll wait it out. I know what you are all saying about the application, to be honest its something i wouldve never seen myself do which is why i had to bring it up with somebody. She just seemed really nice, she was totally my type and i never had a chance to outright say 'hey if you ever want to hang out hit me up'. Well i did my part, if she calls she calls, if not ce la vi. Thanks for the input peepes.:Typotux::)

dude, don't just totally sit back, work the sister angle in the hopes that the chick calls her up, make sure your sister plays ball for ya.

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dude, don't just totally sit back, work the sister angle in the hopes that the chick calls her up, make sure your sister plays ball for ya.

Just did :). I was lucky that she left a message with my sis and she hadnt called her back yet. So i told my sis to be nice and get her to call me back. Well see what happens.

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Just did :). I was lucky that she left a message with my sis and she hadnt called her back yet. So i told my sis to be nice and get her to call me back. Well see what happens.

The move is to get your sister to give her a job, this way then you can show up and make your move, but hey, good luck!

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i was waitin for the bus a while back. and this hot chick stopped and asked me if i wanted a ride in her car (my car's a piece of **** by the way). i said sure. she told me here name so i told her my name and a couple of minutes later she completely forgot my name. she seemed kinda tipsy but that was it for me. if i had forgotten a chicks name boy would i have been in trouble

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The move is to get your sister to give her a job, this way then you can show up and make your move, but hey, good luck!

Yeah i know but there arent any opening to give. I told her at least to call her back let her know and then be like you should call my brother again.;)

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i was waitin for the bus a while back. and this hot chick stopped and asked me if i wanted a ride in her car (my car's a piece of **** by the way). i said sure. she told me here name so i told her my name and a couple of minutes later she completely forgot my name. she seemed kinda tipsy but that was it for me. if i had forgotten a chicks name boy would i have been in trouble

A girl THAT smart yet that forward? Was she hot? Sounds like easy pickins:p

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i was waitin for the bus a while back. and this hot chick stopped and asked me if i wanted a ride in her car (my car's a piece of **** by the way). i said sure. she told me here name so i told her my name and a couple of minutes later she completely forgot my name. she seemed kinda tipsy but that was it for me. if i had forgotten a chicks name boy would i have been in trouble

by the way, this is a classic opening for a porn scene, heck there are whole sites built around this, lol.

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SHE JUST TOTALLY CALLED! OMG @_@ She was cool about meeting up for coffee and shes gonna look into meeting up at a show tomorrow! :cool::cheers: THANK YOU ALL! I promise you i will not **** this up! :)

Just leave a digital camera well charged in plain site on the night table next to the bed, and share the pics;)

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