ladyJET2280 Posted November 13, 2008 Share Posted November 13, 2008 I am just curious about your opinion to this question... Do opposites attract? Just wondering Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
war ensemble Posted November 13, 2008 Share Posted November 13, 2008 With regards to what? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ladyJET2280 Posted November 13, 2008 Author Share Posted November 13, 2008 well lets say personally like relationships... do you think opposites attract? CAn it work?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bergen Jet Posted November 13, 2008 Share Posted November 13, 2008 I am just curious about your opinion to this question... Do opposites attract? Just wondering There is no rhyme or reason to anything related to love and/or physical attraction. So while in some cases opposites may attract I am sure you will find way more instances of people with similar interests attracting... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ladyJET2280 Posted November 13, 2008 Author Share Posted November 13, 2008 Thats interesting what you said BergenJet. I love hearing what people think. Its not anything I am going though but I was reading an article about opposites attracting to one another. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bugeater Posted November 13, 2008 Share Posted November 13, 2008 IMO you're better off not having a lot in common with your SO, otherwise he/she will expect you to..like...do stuff together...ewww. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ladyJET2280 Posted November 13, 2008 Author Share Posted November 13, 2008 IMO you're better off not having a lot in common with your SO, otherwise he/she will expect you to..like...do stuff together...ewww. I guess you arent the sensitive type to do things together hehe Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
war ensemble Posted November 13, 2008 Share Posted November 13, 2008 It can work either way--love is a complicated thing that can't be defined by a strict set of laws. Opposites can attract, just like in nature, but similarities can also be good. The best would be a mix of the two. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ladyJET2280 Posted November 13, 2008 Author Share Posted November 13, 2008 It can work either way--love is a complicated thing that can't be defined by a strict set of laws. Opposites can attract, just like in nature, but similarities can also be good. The best would be a mix of the two. Sometimes its better to be opposites....You have a bit of everything dont you think??? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
war ensemble Posted November 13, 2008 Share Posted November 13, 2008 Sometimes its better to be opposites....You have a bit of everything dont you think??? Oh trust me, I do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ladyJET2280 Posted November 13, 2008 Author Share Posted November 13, 2008 Oh trust me, I do. awww...are u with someone the opposite of you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bugeater Posted November 13, 2008 Share Posted November 13, 2008 I guess you arent the sensitive type to do things together hehe News flash, the only time guys are interested in doing stuff with women is when they're trying to get them in the sack. Other than that they'd rather be hanging out with their friends doing guy stuff. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
war ensemble Posted November 13, 2008 Share Posted November 13, 2008 awww...are u with someone the opposite of you? I think she's cute, so I suppose so. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ladyJET2280 Posted November 13, 2008 Author Share Posted November 13, 2008 News flash, the only time guys are interested in doing stuff with women is when they're trying to get them in the sack. Other than that they'd rather be hanging out with their friends doing guy stuff. Not always, there are guys who want to do stuff with their significant other....... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pragmatic Bus Posted November 13, 2008 Share Posted November 13, 2008 I think she's cute, so I suppose so. DO HER IN THE BUTT! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
afosomf Posted November 13, 2008 Share Posted November 13, 2008 Not always, there are guys who want to do stuff with their significant other....... only in bedroom Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ladyJET2280 Posted November 13, 2008 Author Share Posted November 13, 2008 only in bedroom really? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bob Posted November 13, 2008 Share Posted November 13, 2008 I am just curious about your opinion to this question... Do opposites attract? Just wondering You're a young Asian woman. I'm an old white guy. Wanna do me? There's your answer. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ladyJET2280 Posted November 13, 2008 Author Share Posted November 13, 2008 You're a young Asian woman. I'm an old white guy. Wanna do me? There's your answer. thats not what i was looking for:rolleyes: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thai Jet Posted November 13, 2008 Share Posted November 13, 2008 I am just curious about your opinion to this question... Do opposites attract? Just wondering Yes to a point,however there has to be some common interests. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rillo Posted November 13, 2008 Share Posted November 13, 2008 Yes to a point,however there has to be some common interests. Agreed, well said. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thai Jet Posted November 13, 2008 Share Posted November 13, 2008 You're a young Asian woman. I'm an old white guy. Wanna do me? There's your answer. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thai Jet Posted November 13, 2008 Share Posted November 13, 2008 Agreed, well said. The gf and I both play tennis, hike and she's a football junkie. But we have lots of stuff we do by ourselves or with friends. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rillo Posted November 13, 2008 Share Posted November 13, 2008 The gf and I both play tennis, hike and she's a football junkie. But we have lots of stuff we do by ourselves or with friends. Yeah that's a good balance, the girls I've been with don't know anything about sports let alone play any and that was my 'escape', besides video games. Would like to date someone who does like football/sports though. I think its important for both to have friends though. Sounding like Dr. Phil now....WTF?! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thai Jet Posted November 13, 2008 Share Posted November 13, 2008 Yeah that's a good balance, the girls I've been with don't know anything about sports let alone play any and that was my 'escape', besides video games. Would like to date someone who does like football/sports though. I think its important for both to have friends though. Sounding like Dr. Phil now....WTF?! As long as the girl tolerates you watching or playing that's OK. But if they want to "change" you then it won't work. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Gun Of Bavaria Posted November 13, 2008 Share Posted November 13, 2008 I am just curious about your opinion to this question... Do opposites attract? Just wondering My fiance is a Democrat, I'm a Republican. She hates sports, I love sports. She's always on time, I'm always late. She's an early riser, I'm a night owl. The amount of opposites that I have with her are very funny actually, but things couldn't be better and we respect each other just the same, despite our differences. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maxman Posted November 13, 2008 Share Posted November 13, 2008 My fiance is a Democrat, I'm a Republican. She hates sports, I love sports. She's always on time, I'm always late. She's an early riser, I'm a night owl. The amount of opposites that I have with her are very funny actually, but things couldn't be better and we respect each other just the same, despite our differences. She is normal, you are a slacker. You left that one out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Gun Of Bavaria Posted November 13, 2008 Share Posted November 13, 2008 She is normal, you are a slacker. You left that one out. Max, I just got back from hockey. Just for that, I am not going to shower from now until you pick me up in Newark. But you're right. She's normal and beautiful, I'm very abnormal....explaining why I fit in around here, Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thai Jet Posted November 13, 2008 Share Posted November 13, 2008 My fiance is a Democrat, I'm a Republican. She hates sports, I love sports. She's always on time, I'm always late. She's an early riser, I'm a night owl. The amount of opposites that I have with her are very funny actually, but things couldn't be better and we respect each other just the same, despite our differences. You must have some common interests no? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lawngnome o-line Posted November 13, 2008 Share Posted November 13, 2008 Opposites work as long as there is some common ground where both of you are the same. It doesn't need to be on what interests you each have, but perhaps on what are you looking for, something serious or something light, what kind of future you want. Really as long as the big questions are answered the same, all the other little things can get worked out if both people want to. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ZachEY Posted November 13, 2008 Share Posted November 13, 2008 Well, by saying yes to 8, California just legislated that only opposites can attract. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Gun Of Bavaria Posted November 13, 2008 Share Posted November 13, 2008 You must have some common interests no? Yeah, we have some. We both love my daughter, have similar morals and values, and respect each other's opinion. Hell we don't even like the same TV shows and rarely watch TV together, at least when sports is on. Yet somehow, we get along great. Perhaps that's the secret. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Garb Posted November 13, 2008 Share Posted November 13, 2008 Yeah, we have some. We both love my daughter, have similar morals and values, and respect each other's opinion. Hell we don't even like the same TV shows and rarely watch TV together, at least when sports is on. Yet somehow, we get along great. Perhaps that's the secret. I can't see how being joined at the hip, 24/7 can be a good thing. Common values are a good thing. Some similar interests are a good thing....but you need some seperateness and independence of thought and activity to maintain the freshness and yourself. You know, the person that other person fell for in the first place? BTW - GOB, I am far from a Catholic zealot, that's for sure - but that picture is disturbing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Gun Of Bavaria Posted November 13, 2008 Share Posted November 13, 2008 I can't see how being joined at the hip, 24/7 can be a good thing. Common values are a good thing. Some similar interests are a good thing....but you need some seperateness and independence of thought and activity to maintain the freshness and yourself. You know, the person that other person fell for in the first place? BTW - GOB, I am far from a Catholic zealot, that's for sure - but that picture is disturbing. LOL Yeah, I think you have to have time to yourself or at least, time to do/watch the things you want in any relationship from time to time, to keep it healthy. You can't forget your friends and you can't spend every waking minute with the other or else inevitably, you'll just get on each other nerves. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thai Jet Posted November 13, 2008 Share Posted November 13, 2008 Well, by saying yes to 8, California just legislated that only opposites can attract. Well it's worked with magnets for millions of years. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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