Barton Posted September 19, 2005 Share Posted September 19, 2005 What happened today? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DireJet38 Posted September 19, 2005 Share Posted September 19, 2005 Look at the person in your signature, try to live with a little more pride than that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jetme23 Posted September 19, 2005 Author Share Posted September 19, 2005 I Was going to go up to her today, Cause I knew she would be walking around by herself, but I was talking to my friend about her, and he goes "oh, I'm pretty sure she's dating that guy(points to the fag in the lunchroom)" I swear I herd something break into peices. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JetFanByMarriage Posted September 19, 2005 Share Posted September 19, 2005 I Was going to go up to her today, Cause I knew she would be walking around by herself, but I was talking to my friend about her, and he goes "oh, I'm pretty sure she's dating that guy(points to the fag in the lunchroom)" I swear I herd something break into peices. Jetme I am so sorry!!!! Listen it is the beginning of the year and you never know what will happen. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jetheelz Posted September 19, 2005 Share Posted September 19, 2005 I Was going to go up to her today, Cause I knew she would be walking around by herself, but I was talking to my friend about her, and he goes "oh, I'm pretty sure she's dating that guy(points to the fag in the lunchroom)" I swear I herd something break into peices. That is what stopped you? Even your friend is not 100% sure!! Try again tomorrow. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jetme23 Posted September 19, 2005 Author Share Posted September 19, 2005 yea we'll, luck has never been on my side, not once. This is just typicial. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jetheelz Posted September 19, 2005 Share Posted September 19, 2005 yea we'll, luck has never been on my side, not once. This is just typicial. I could tell you some stories about my luck that would bring you to tears. My point is, give it one more try tomorrow. Give it all you got. Yes, she may be dating this guy, but its not 100%. Take the chance, and if you come out unsuccessful at least you know you did all you could. Then move on, no matter how difficult it is. You will be fine!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Barton Posted September 19, 2005 Share Posted September 19, 2005 I Was going to go up to her today, Cause I knew she would be walking around by herself, but I was talking to my friend about her, and he goes "oh, I'm pretty sure she's dating that guy(points to the fag in the lunchroom)" I swear I herd something break into peices. You f#*king pansy! 1. Your friend isnt 100% positive who she is going out with 2. Who gives a damn if she is going out with or if she is going out with somebody Grow a sack and some pubes and ask her out. :wink: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jetheelz Posted September 19, 2005 Share Posted September 19, 2005 You f#*king pansy! 1. Your friend isnt 100% positive who she is going out with 2. Who gives a damn if she is going out with or if she is going out with somebody Grow a sack and some pubes and ask her out. :wink: Barton, thats not really the way to encourage him. I think he should do it tomorrow, swing for the fences and know that he tried the best he could. The sun will rise again and he will be fine. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jetme23 Posted September 19, 2005 Author Share Posted September 19, 2005 You f#*king pansy! 1. Your friend isnt 100% positive who she is going out with 2. Who gives a damn if she is going out with or if she is going out with somebody Grow a sack and some pubes and ask her out. :wink: Thanks for the morale boast. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Panzer Division Marduk Posted September 19, 2005 Share Posted September 19, 2005 I Was going to go up to her today, Cause I knew she would be walking around by herself, but I was talking to my friend about her, and he goes "oh, I'm pretty sure she's dating that guy(points to the fag in the lunchroom)" I swear I herd something break into peices. T-MAC, you might want to offer your help again, I think you may have a customer. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Barton Posted September 19, 2005 Share Posted September 19, 2005 Thanks for the morale boast. Are you kidding me? If what I said saddened you, then you probably have some other issues to deal with. You got nothing to lose, remember that. So ask her out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jetme23 Posted September 19, 2005 Author Share Posted September 19, 2005 No other issues guy, just this. I don't know anymore, I was so focused on it, I wish the fag didn't tell me she was with someone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DireJet38 Posted September 19, 2005 Share Posted September 19, 2005 No other issues guy, just this. I don't know anymore, I was so focused on it, I wish the fag didn't tell me she was with someone. You are a senior right? Don't even think about getting serious with a girl right now man. You don't want to even think about a long distance relationship with a girl while at college. It will turn beyond ugly and in the end will hurt a lot more than what you are feeling right now. Have a crazy, awesome, senior year with your buddies and if a girl comes along then so be it. Even then I woudln't get serious, just have fun, don't commit. Don't worry though man, in the long run not being with this chick will be a lot better than getting her, trust me on this one. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jetme23 Posted September 19, 2005 Author Share Posted September 19, 2005 You are a senior right? Don't even think about getting serious with a girl right now man. You don't want to even think about a long distance relationship with a girl while at college. It will turn beyond ugly and in the end will hurt a lot more than what you are feeling right now. Have a crazy, awesome, senior year with your buddies and if a girl comes along then so be it. Even then I woudln't get serious, just have fun, don't commit. Don't worry though man, in the long run not being with this chick will be a lot better than getting her, trust me on this one. I don't know why, but when I read what you had to say, I didn't get the same sense of relief you probably thought you would have given me. Thanks anyway. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stormshadow19 Posted September 19, 2005 Share Posted September 19, 2005 I don't know why, but when I read what you had to say, I didn't get the same sense of relief you probably thought you would have given me. Thanks anyway. I think that advice comes with some wisdom and experience behind it, but also with the knowledge of what they were going to do after high school. To be honest, it's very good advice and you should follow it. This time isn't about trying to find a mate. It's about trying to find yourself and having the time of your life. High school senior and through college, the best times of your life. Should that include a lady on your arm, that's just gravy. After college, you've got to join the real world and the fun factor is cut down, a ton. Luckly, I'm on the TomShane college plan, so I won't have to worry about that for awhile. But, if I were you, and it is alot harder than it sounds, but try and forget about her. How well did you even know her? I'm not trying to be mean, but did you even know her? Like more than just on a name basis. Would you consider yourselves even acquaintences? If not, then it's not a huge deal. Not as big as it seems right now. And, bad luck? You're a high school senior. Wait til you get older, if you believe in bad luck. Listen to my boy Heelz. Listen to my boy EB. Listen to DJ. It's all sound advice. It's coming from a good place. Sure Eb's was a bit more harsh than others, but sometimes people need a kick in the ass. And, the bad luck? I as well could tell you tales that would make you feel a ton better about your situation. You didn't even try. Yes, she may be dating someone, but hell, that's so fickle, especially in high school. So, go up to her, talk to her, if she's taken, that's fine. Just be friendly with her. I wouldn't suggest getting super close and becoming like her best friend or anything... sadly, women who view guys as someone they can talk to as their girlfriends, not boyfriends. Or do in my experience. Just be friendly and keep an aura of mystery about yourself. Look like the life of the party. As my boss told me "Fake it til you make it." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jetme23 Posted September 19, 2005 Author Share Posted September 19, 2005 I know all of you are coming from expirence, but it doesn't make this situation any better for me. I guess I really shouldn't be trippin senior year, but still, something about her that makes me go "dayum". I can't explain it, but whatever "it" is, its something real. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlackLabelJetsFan Posted September 19, 2005 Share Posted September 19, 2005 Tom actually might have given decent advice with the bone structure comment. Chances are if they have high cheek bones their faces wont fall apart when they hit 35. And avoid chicks who have "cankles" where the calf and ankle are basically the same. Look at her mother to get an idea of how she'll turn out as well. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jetme23 Posted September 19, 2005 Author Share Posted September 19, 2005 And avoid chicks who have "cankles" where the calf and ankle are basically the same. Look at her mother to get an idea of how she'll turn out as well. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlackLabelJetsFan Posted September 19, 2005 Share Posted September 19, 2005 Jerk off before you go to school. Nothing could be worse than pitching a tent while you're talking to this chick. Best advice in this thread. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jetme23 Posted September 19, 2005 Author Share Posted September 19, 2005 Best advice in this thread. I actually just read that... Thats probably the funniest thingin this thread because you all have no self control. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlackLabelJetsFan Posted September 19, 2005 Share Posted September 19, 2005 I Was going to go up to her today, Cause I knew she would be walking around by herself, but I was talking to my friend about her, and he goes "oh, I'm pretty sure she's dating that guy(points to the fag in the lunchroom)" I swear I herd something break into peices. Dude, I'm just going to lay it out there... Go up to her, ask her out. If she says she's got a boyfriend, LIFE WILL GO ON. If she says yes, then you're all set. If you need a sports analogy, 100% of the shots you don't take won't go in. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. Plain and simple. And there will be other women if this one says no. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jetheelz Posted September 19, 2005 Share Posted September 19, 2005 If you do take Alk's advice and fire one off before school, just don't do like Ben Stiller in "There's Something about Mary" and forget to check your ears. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stormshadow19 Posted September 19, 2005 Share Posted September 19, 2005 I know all of you are coming from expirence, but it doesn't make this situation any better for me. I guess I really shouldn't be trippin senior year, but still, something about her that makes me go "dayum". I can't explain it, but whatever "it" is, its something real. Right... but do you even know her? Likes? Dislikes? If she has any pets? Or is it just purely superficial? See, in high school, very rarely is it "real". I know that's harsh, but it's the truth. And, our advice and wisdom, it isn't to make you feel better. It's to show you that others have been through it. And, you shouldn't be trippin senior year. Go get ****ed up each weekend. Have a blast. You're not going to be as free as you are now ever again, in your life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlackLabelJetsFan Posted September 19, 2005 Share Posted September 19, 2005 I actually just read that... Thats probably the funniest thingin this thread because you all have no self control. Folks trying to lighten the mood and help you out, and you're going to throw them under the bus? Grab some sack, ask this girl out, and stop wondering about what could be, and find out what the deal is. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jetme23 Posted September 19, 2005 Author Share Posted September 19, 2005 Right... but do you even know her? Likes? Dislikes? If she has any pets? Or is it just purely superficial? See, in high school, very rarely is it "real". I know that's harsh, but it's the truth. And, our advice and wisdom, it isn't to make you feel better. It's to show you that others have been through it. And, you shouldn't be trippin senior year. Go get F#cked up each weekend. Have a blast. You're not going to be as free as you are now ever again, in your life. To a point, it pretty much is superficial, maybe because I don't know her well enough to get that kind of 2 hour conversation going on the phone every night, Im not the type to go get ****ed up every weekend, in fact parties are overrated. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stormshadow19 Posted September 19, 2005 Share Posted September 19, 2005 To a point, it pretty much is superficial, maybe because I don't know her well enough to get that kind of 2 hour conversation going on the phone every night, Im not the type to go get F#cked up every weekend, in fact parties are overrated. So, it's a pure on sight thing, since you know her enough to say hi to her and she won't shoot you a dirty look, because you look familiar. Parties, to a point, are overrated, but in the state you're in, they might be what the doctor ordered. You can't go through life uptight (or fat, drunk, and stupid, but that's another thing all together). You need to loosen up, even just once in awhile. I don't party as much as I used to, and I didn't party that much when I was younger, but when I did, it was fun. Ok, so don't get ****ed up, but go out and have some fun. Collect your boys and go out, take in a baseball game, or hockey, or basketball, or go and play something, or go and hang out somewhere, anything. Just so you're not stuck at your house, in your room, on the computer, obsessing about some gal you think is pretty. And, we're just trying to help, there's no need to get pissy about it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jetme23 Posted September 19, 2005 Author Share Posted September 19, 2005 Im not pissy, I'm very calm, im actually going to my friends house soon to play ball. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlackLabelJetsFan Posted September 19, 2005 Share Posted September 19, 2005 And, our advice and wisdom, it isn't to make you feel better. It's to show you that others have been through it. No matter how good looking, smart, funny or rich, I can guarantee every guy here has either gotten shot down by a woman when asking her out or he's sitting there regretting the one he didnt try for. Its like sales. Women WILL say no. Look at rejection as a learning experience. If you get shot down, look back at what you said and did, and refine it. And this is still all assuming she's dating the other guy and will say no. As SS19 said, dating in high school isnt always serious. Even if she is his "girlfriend" she may kick him to the curb and go out with you. Point being, you'll never know unless you try. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bitonti Posted September 19, 2005 Share Posted September 19, 2005 Johnny: Oh, Godfather, I don't know what to do. I don't know what to do. Don Corleone: [shouts] You can act like a man! [he slaps Johnny] Don Corleone: What's the matter with you. Is this how you turned out? A Hollywood fannuchio that cries like a woman. [Don Corleone imitates him sobbing] Don Corleone: What can I do? [camera pans to Tom who is laughing] Don Corleone: What can I do? What is that nonsense. Ridiculous. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jetme23 Posted September 19, 2005 Author Share Posted September 19, 2005 after talking with bitonti, I have realized, better yet he has told me, yall are living your old expierences with me, so I'm going to bang this chic for all of you. that is my years mission. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stormshadow19 Posted September 19, 2005 Share Posted September 19, 2005 after talking with bitonti, I have realized, better yet he has told me, yall are living your old expierences with me, so I'm going to bang this chic for all of you. that is my years mission. Yeah... cause we all went on the internet and whined about a girl we don't know. But hey, good on ya. Go get her. Have fun. Don't forget to wrap it up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bitonti Posted September 19, 2005 Share Posted September 19, 2005 that's the spirit - remember as Tom Shane will attest, 25 feet on a restraining order is nothing! two people can still have a meaningful relationship over 25 feet of distance! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jetme23 Posted September 19, 2005 Author Share Posted September 19, 2005 Yeah... cause we all went on the internet and whined about a girl we don't know. But hey, good on ya. Go get her. Have fun. Don't forget to wrap it up. instead of being an a$$hole, why not congradulate me? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stormshadow19 Posted September 19, 2005 Share Posted September 19, 2005 instead of being an a$$hole, why not congradulate me? Hello pot, meet the kettle Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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