Rex & Michelle Ryan Make Foot-Fetish Videos

[CTM]

If they made a fat head of this shot, I'd buy it and put it on my ceiling.

Jif likes him even more now that he's found out coach shares his hunger for big cack

[Garb]

Personally, I could not care less was Rex and his wife do. I may find "sharing" vile - but that's me and who cares. The issue here is the poor judgement displayed. You can't be a high profile HC in the media capital of the world and not bury whatever skeletons you may have. In this world where sensationalized journalism rules, you have to be super careful. The issue here is Rex and wife's stupidity. Sorry, Jets fans.

[docdhc]

I have to admit that if this happened to anyone else, like Brady or Belichick, I might enjoy their embarassment a little. In this case, however, I only feel bad for the Ryans. They never intended to hurt anyone, they weren't unfaithful to each other, and no laws were broken. They made a huge error in judgement posting in a public forum, but they don't deserve the embarassment that will be heaped upon themselves, their kids, other family members, and all their friends. Michele Ryan cannot walk down the streets of Summit anymore without everyone whispering or snickering about it. Rex, and probably Rob too, will face countless abuse at every away game. This also doesn't help Rob get a head coaching job. It seems very unfair.

[GodWearsAGrayHoodie]

I however, I only feel bad for the Ryans.

I don't know why you feel bad for them. It is what they wanted. The posted the videos on youtube so others would see them. Others are seeing them.

His foot fetish is a surprise.

Him being an exhibitionist (someone who likes other to watch or who would post homemade porn flicks on the internet for the world to see) should come as a surprise to no one.

[BP]

If they made a fat head of this shot, I'd buy it and put it on my ceiling.

I'm surprised you think like this. You have the tough guy persona on the interwebz and one would only imagine you are like that in the real life too. A take no sh*t type. My take is, one drubbing on someone that opens there mouth, nobody says a peep again...at least not to your face.

The first reply is funny as hell. the second one makes absolutely no sense. you are missing the point. first of all I have no clue what you're talking about with me being a tough guy on the interwebz. this is me. secondly, what does that have to do with his kids? I don't get it? they can take being ribbed in school about mom and dad having internet fetishes because you think im an internet tough guy? you lost me, please explain (if you can)

I also heard a rumor that Klecko only has sex in the missionary position. you know him very well, is this true? can you confirm this?

[slats]

From your picture I assume you have a son - do you teach him values - right vs wrong - or are you so lax or afraid to be 'uncool'and want to maintain that image of 'it's an anything goes society' and whatever his behaviors are now and then as an adult it is ok with me.

Who are you to judge how anyone should be raising their kids? I am definitely a liberal parent, and I guarantee you my kids are well behaved, moral teenagers. I know plenty of kids raised by stricter parents, and they are the ones drinking heavily and having sex. That's what happens to kids raised puritanically.

What's wrong with us that we cannot criticise certain behaviors of adults.

What's wrong with you that you need to criticize certain behaviors of consenting adults? What business is it of yours?

I guarantee you this - the Ryans will never do this again. If it's ok and they did 'nothing wrong' why not continue this behavior and promote it as ok - The Jet Way - every marriage should have their husband watch while his wife gets drilled.

They won't do it again because they're public figures, and society is filled with voyeuristic hypocrites who love to dig into all the sordid details of stories like these, and then judge them unfit for societal consumption.

I'm not afraid to say that this behavior should be discouraged.

I'm not afraid to say that your behavior should be discouraged.

I am not perfect nor is my marriage, but we need standards and values in society. I'm sorry if this offends you or if think I'm some whiter than white moral police even though you don't have a clue about my race.

We have laws in our society. The Ryans haven't broken any.

This is supposed to be the land of the free, and I guess that's all well and good until some morally uptight citizens become offended.

If you don't like this type of behavior, you're free to stay away from it. Don't want to hear about it? Disconnect from the internet and cancel cable TV. Still too much offending you in the street? Move somewhere else. You're free to be as prissy and prudish as you wish. Knock yourself out.

The Ryans are free to do whatever they want to spice up their marriage and keep themselves happy - as long as it doesn't harm anyone else. I know you're feeling hurt and all, but I really don't think you've actually been harmed.

I'm crying - please be my friend - oh wait nah - I think Lennon is way overrated. Merry Christmas.

I'm shocked that the morality police doesn't appreciate John Lennon. Shocked, I tell you!

Happy Xmas (War Is Over)!

[32GreenIsGod]

I have to admit that if this happened to anyone else, like Brady or Belichick, I might enjoy their embarassment a little. In this case, however, I only feel bad for the Ryans. They never intended to hurt anyone, they weren't unfaithful to each other, and no laws were broken. They made a huge error in judgement posting in a public forum, but they don't deserve the embarassment that will be heaped upon themselves, their kids, other family members, and all their friends. Michele Ryan cannot walk down the streets of Summit anymore without everyone whispering or snickering about it. Rex, and probably Rob too, will face countless abuse at every away game. This also doesn't help Rob get a head coaching job. It seems very unfair.

This is how I feel too. I think most folks agree they didn't do anything "wrong", you should hear the weird stuff I am into.

But its the poor judgement to put this "out there" thats the problem. My wife and I keep our videos to ourselves.

Iffin' you have a high profile job you simply can't do this.

[slats]

But the more important question is can we be friends?

isnt it possible that they did all of this as fantasy play.. if the intro was written by either Rex or his wife, it doesnt mean they did anythign about it.. it might just be talk to spice up their sex life... AND even if they did something about it.. if it was something they did happily in their marriage ... who are we to judge... really?

as for the foot videos .. so what..

just let them be.. married and inventive after 23 years.. nothing wrong with that..

those without fantasy, throw the proverbial first stone

I thought we were friends!

The profiles are pretty serious, with Michelle's goodies on display and all, but you're right in that could be as far as they took it. Could be sexy enough just to post those pictures on line and think about other people looking at them. Who knows? None of us, unless someone wants to step forward as having replied to them and met before Deadspin broke the story.

I'm psyched for them. I think it's great that they dig each other so much, and have this kind of fun after 23 years of marriage.

Also, pm me your fantasies. Thanks!

[gg]

Which reminds me...does anyone want to hear about my many gg-related fetish fantasies? PM me for the link to my blog and podcasts.

hmmmm.. i think you have me mixed up with someone with 3g's

[gg]

srsly, if everyones fetishes were revealed, that video would be on the bottom of the list !

my wife found out about this today and had the same reaction, "so what.....".

i agree with you ..

and your wife sounds like a smart cookie!

[Verde]

Which reminds me...does anyone want to hear about my many gg-related fetish fantasies? PM me for the link to my blog and podcasts.

I definitely would.

[T0mShane]

hmmmm.. i think you have me mixed up with someone with 3g's

Noooooooooooooo way. Those videos are in a storage crate in between the Ark of the Covenant and Walt Disney's cryogenically preserved head.

[gg]

I thought we were friends!

The profiles are pretty serious, with Michelle's goodies on display and all, but you're right in that could be as far as they took it. Could be sexy enough just to post those pictures on line and think about other people looking at them. Who knows? None of us, unless someone wants to step forward as having replied to them and met before Deadspin broke the story.

I'm psyched for them. I think it's great that they dig each other so much, and have this kind of fun after 23 years of marriage.

Also, pm me your fantasies. Thanks!

yes we are friends. LOL!

i didnt realize the pixs showed her "goodies" if i interpret that word correctly..i thought they just showed her tootsies. OY! Either way.. who are we to judge? And i still say it is terrific they are keeping it fresh

PM you my fantasies? you cant handle my fantasies...

[JustInFudge]

This also doesn't help Rob get a head coaching job. It seems very unfair.

I highly doubt his brothers actions are going to have any impact on him.

Lets be real here, cheating on your wife is basically acceptable, but this isnt? Plenty of scumbag HC's who sleep around, get caught (BB), and are doing just fine. Dont see how this is worse.

I agree it was poor judgement, but I think people are blowing this way out of proportion.

The first reply is funny as hell. the second one makes absolutely no sense. you are missing the point. first of all I have no clue what you're talking about with me being a tough guy on the interwebz. this is me. secondly, what does that have to do with his kids? I don't get it? they can take being ribbed in school about mom and dad having internet fetishes because you think im an internet tough guy? you lost me, please explain (if you can)

I also heard a rumor that Klecko only has sex in the missionary position. you know him very well, is this true? can you confirm this?

You come off as a tough guy, no nonsense type guy on the interwebz. You are always calling people out, personally attacking them, and dont have any time for fun and games. So, my assumption is you are the same way in real life...which makes me think you were probably someone who wouldnt just sit around letting someone make fun of your folks. You'd take action.

Which is what I was saying about his kids. The first time someone opens their mouth, you shut it for them and set an example. Ribbing's over. Figured with your tough guy persona that you'd think the same way.

The only sex position in Florida that is legal is the missionary position, so if he does, I'd say he's just a law abiding citizen. But I cant confirm or deny your allegations.

[T0mShane]

I definitely would.

!

[Verde]

!

Are you shocked or correcting my punctuation? lol.

[BP]

I highly doubt his brothers actions are going to have any impact on him.

Lets be real here, cheating on your wife is basically acceptable, but this isnt? Plenty of scumbag HC's who sleep around, get caught (BB), and are doing just fine. Dont see how this is worse.

I agree it was poor judgement, but I think people are blowing this way out of proportion.

You come off as a tough guy, no nonsense type guy on the interwebz. You are always calling people out, personally attacking them, and dont have any time for fun and games. So, my assumption is you are the same way in real life...which makes me think you were probably someone who wouldnt just sit around letting someone make fun of your folks. You'd take action.

Which is what I was saying about his kids. The first time someone opens their mouth, you shut it for them and set an example. Ribbing's over. Figured with your tough guy persona that you'd think the same way.

The only sex position in Florida that is legal is the missionary position, so if he does, I'd say he's just a law abiding citizen. But I cant confirm or deny your allegations.

Personally attacking people? oh please, you guys need to thicken your skin up if you think that.

So Rex's kids will beat up anybody that ribs them about their mom and dad and everything will be fine with them? you dont think those kids might think ''gee, I wish my mom and dad didnt put that on the internet, this sucks?''

[JustInFudge]

Personally attacking people? oh please, you guys need to thicken your skin up if you think that.

So Rex's kids will beat up anybody that ribs them about their mom and dad and everything will be fine with them? you dont think those kids might think ''gee, I wish my mom and dad didnt put that on the internet, this sucks?''

Didnt say the attacks bother me, but you definitely do it more than anyone else on the site. So drawing my assumption about you should make sense.

I didnt say that it would make everything better, I said it would fix the ribbing problems. I'm sure they'd wish they never knew...but now they do. Life doesnt end and it could be worse.

[docdhc]

I highly doubt his brothers actions are going to have any impact on him.

Lets be real here, cheating on your wife is basically acceptable, but this isnt? Plenty of scumbag HC's who sleep around, get caught (BB), and are doing just fine. Dont see how this is worse.

I think people think Rob has a similar personality as Rex and many of the stodgy, buttoned down NFL owners won't want the same headaches that have been associated with the Jets this year. This incident is just the cherry on top of why I think it will hurt Rob's chances of getting a HC job.

[BP]

Didnt say the attacks bother me, but you definitely do it more than anyone else on the site. So drawing my assumption about you should make sense.

I didnt say that it would make everything better, I said it would fix the ribbing problems. I'm sure they'd wish they never knew...but now they do. Life doesnt end and it could be worse.

If whatever it is I'm supposedly doing to you doesn't bother you, you wouldn't keep bringing it up, would you? please stop with the incessant whining about it at least.

What point are you making if it doesnt make anything better? I never said life ends, I just said it sucked for his kids.

[Cyberjet]

Who are you to judge how anyone should be raising their kids? I am definitely a liberal parent, and I guarantee you my kids are well behaved, moral teenagers. I know plenty of kids raised by stricter parents, and they are the ones drinking heavily and having sex. That's what happens to kids raised puritanically.

Does John Lennon know you used the word moral in a sentence? How dare you use that word moral - does it have meaning to you or carry weight or standards as defined by you - god forbid explaining what is right vs wrong. I'm disappointed.

[JustInFudge]

If whatever it is I'm supposedly doing to you doesn't bother you, you wouldn't keep bringing it up, would you? please stop with the incessant whining about it at least.

What point are you making if it doesnt make anything better? I never said life ends, I just said it sucked for his kids.

I'm not whining, just using something very present about your behavior to make an assumption on how you'd handle a situation.

My point is about the ribbing...how are you not following? Knock a punk out, ribbing ends, kids fine at school. Thats all I was talking about.

[T0mShane]

Are you shocked or correcting my punctuation? lol.

Colour me titillated.

[BP]

I'm not whining, just using something very present about your behavior to make an assumption on how you'd handle a situation.

My point is about the ribbing...how are you not following? Knock a punk out, ribbing ends, kids fine at school. Thats all I was talking about.

Rex is responsible for his sons actions until he's an adult, you know that, right? so you would want more distractions for the family?

[slats]

Yeah right - just look at Hollywood - now there you have adults and kids brought up by puritanical principles - not. Some of the most screwed up kids I grew up were with parents who gave them no structure. That being said you can find plenty of examples on both sides of the aisle. The point as you said they need morals. You used the word moral not me.

Who said anything about lack of structure? Having a playful sex life with your spouse equates to lack of structure to you?

How many screwed up kids did you know? What's the sample size here for your scientific observation? Or do you even believe in science?

I tend to believe that humans are born with an inherent sense of right and wrong - or morality, if you will. People understand that it's wrong to harm others, or to abuse themselves. Engaging in pleasing activities with other consenting adults would not fall into that category.

[JustInFudge]

Rex is responsible for his sons actions until he's an adult, you know that, right? so you would want more distractions for the family?

I'm not sure I'm following...he's not going to jail if his son knocks someone out. And I dont know how Rex is at home, but my father would encourage me to knock someone out who was insulting my mother...lol...and my father wasnt a HC who go kicked off a team for being to violent. I dont see how a fight is a distraction to the family. My brothers and I fought all the time...never distracted my family...if my parents even found out.

[SMC]

From your picture I assume you have a son - do you teach him values - right vs wrong - or are you so lax or afraid to be 'uncool'and want to maintain that image of 'it's an anything goes society' and whatever his behaviors are now and then as an adult it is ok with me. What's wrong with us that we cannot criticise certain behaviors of adults. I guarantee you this - the Ryans will never do this again. If it's ok and they did 'nothing wrong' why not continue this behavior and promote it as ok - The Jet Way - every marriage should have their husband watch while his wife gets drilled. I'm not afraid to say that this behavior should be discouraged. I am not perfect nor is my marriage, but we need standards and values in society. I'm sorry if this offends you or if think I'm some whiter than white moral police even though you don't have a clue about my race.

[BP]

I'm not sure I'm following...he's not going to jail if his son knocks someone out. And I dont know how Rex is at home, but my father would encourage me to knock someone out who was insulting my mother...lol...and my father wasnt a HC who go kicked off a team for being to violent. I dont see how a fight is a distraction to the family. My brothers and I fought all the time...never distracted my family...if my parents even found out.

You're not following. you're not Rex's son's, so how you would know they are fine is mind boggling (unless you do know those kids, do you?) to me.

When you have a fight as a son of a high profiled NFL head coach you dont think somebody will try and capitalize on that? dude, please...lol.take yourself and me and your dad out of the equation. I'm not famous, nor do I have a famous father. is your father famous?

[JustInFudge]

I think people think Rob has a similar personality as Rex and many of the stodgy, buttoned down NFL owners won't want the same headaches that have been associated with the Jets this year. This incident is just the cherry on top of why I think it will hurt Rob's chances of getting a HC job.

I doubt it.

Marv Albert, Rick Pitino, Pat Obrien, Tiger Woods, Bill Belicheat...plenty of dudes doing sh*t that they shouldnt and IMO wore than Rex, who are still doing their job.

This is such a non-issue. I havent seen but maybe 1 minute of this discussed on any major networks. Its water under the bridge.

[Cyberjet]

Who said anything about lack of structure? Having a playful sex life with your spouse equates to lack of structure to you?

How many screwed up kids did you know? What's the sample size here for your scientific observation? Or do you even believe in science?

I tend to believe that humans are born with an inherent sense of right and wrong - or morality, if you will. People understand that it's wrong to harm others, or to abuse themselves. Engaging in pleasing activities with other consenting adults would not fall into that category.

Yes - but it has created a problem for the Ryans and others on many levels - there has been a gross error in judgement and behavior on their part.

[JustInFudge]

You're not following. you're not Rex's son's, so how you would know they are fine is mind boggling (unless you do know those kids, do you?) to me.

When you have a fight as a son of a high profiled NFL head coach you dont think somebody will try and capitalize on that? dude, please...lol.take yourself and me and your dad out of the equation. I'm not famous, nor do I have a famous father. is your father famous?

If you recall what I've said, I'm merely comparing this to my life and how I would handle it. I'm not sure how Rex's kids would, but my point is that its not too crazy of a thought to think this might not effect them as much as you may think. Every house hold is different.

And I dont think a story about Rex Ryan's son in a fight is a big deal even if someone capitalized on it. I think it is for you because you have a strange negative view on everything Rex Ryan, so you'd spin it to how he's a terrible father because he's a fat stupid loud mouth because his kid fought.

[Cyberjet]

You are very clever with the computer - good diversion technique. Why are there curtains in your glass house?

[ZachEY]

After digesting this fiasco, it's hard what to think. Ultimately, it will be Mr. Johnson's decision to decide the fate of Rex Ryan and the direction of the Jets franchise. Whatever decision he makes will be the right decision because it's his team. I am presently into a 'second chance' mentality, but in the end Mr Johnson has to determine what is best for his franchise longterm. You know that Rex Ryan is a very likeable and affable guy - it's an unfortunate situation. In my opinion, if this occurred while Ryan was head coach of the Jets he would be forced to resign.

This episode opens alot of ethical and moral issues. To me the Ryans have only themselves to blame. Whether it be the foot fetish video or the potential nude photos and explicit soliciting of extramarital sex. Once you commit these fantasies and desires beyond the bedroom, it's open season. Particularly when you're dealing with cyberspace degenerates. To me once you commit these desires to include strangers in your marriage or sexual fantasies you cross a line.

The problem with modern society is that the portal hole for opportunity has never been greater or easier than ever before. In earlier times it would be possible to fulfill such urges and fantasies but much more difficult to implement - and perceptually maybe more prone to second thoughts and hesitation to act out these fantasies - difficult access and potential perceived social scrutiny may lead to decreased "abberrant" behavior. Today with a flick of the switch there is opportunity. I realize many of you say so what - it's between them and no one else should give a f***. Maybe that is correct, but social norms and even criticism is important to mold values and behaviors - without them I think humans can degenerate fairly rapidly. Rex Ryan was embarrassed for a reason - he knows there was something wrong with what they did particularly as a married couple (with children) on many different levels. Maybe their marriage will grow and if those desires to see his wife get drilled by someone else (if true) can be reassessed and lead to some internal soul searching and a better more intimate marriage then so be it. I hope the Jets keep Ryan and hope everyone is better for it.

Jesus? Is that you?

[ZachEY]

Heck, most of us masterbate and don't think there's anything wrong with it

Well I never!

[slats]

Yes - but it has created a problem for the Ryans and others on many levels - there has been a gross error in judgement and behavior on their part.

The Ryans and who else? On what levels? How many exactly? A gross error in judgement? And behavior?

The only thing they did wrong -IMHO- is to have Michelle's face visible on the swinger profile pics. That's it. Outside of that, everything else is just good clean fun for partners in a marriage.