joewilly12 Posted December 25, 2023 Share Posted December 25, 2023 I’m 60 …Haven’t had a beer since early July never drank hard liquor in my life haven’t smoked weed since high school never smoked in my life. no drugs. Been going through a bitter divorce for 2 years. What’s wrong with me? Besides the orthopedic pains from 5 surgeries I feel like sh*t. Any ideas? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fantasy Island Posted December 25, 2023 Share Posted December 25, 2023 1 hour ago, joewilly12 said: I’m 60 …Haven’t had a beer since early July never drank hard liquor in my life haven’t smoked weed since high school never smoked in my life. no drugs. Been going through a bitter divorce for 2 years. What’s wrong with me? Besides the orthopedic pains from 5 surgeries I feel like sh*t. Any ideas? Hard mt dews are amazing. Also, get out there and meet new people. It gets better. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RutgersJetFan Posted December 25, 2023 Share Posted December 25, 2023 12 hours ago, joewilly12 said: Besides the orthopedic pains from 5 surgeries I feel like sh*t. Any ideas? I mean, it sounds like it's from that. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maxman Posted December 26, 2023 Share Posted December 26, 2023 Well I am no Doctor but I do have a premium Chat GPT membership. I would start with blood work at my doctors office personally. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BP Posted December 26, 2023 Share Posted December 26, 2023 3 hours ago, Maxman said: Well I am no Doctor but I do have a premium Chat GPT membership. I would start with blood work at my doctors office personally. Are you making an upsale with legendary JN poster JW? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maxman Posted December 26, 2023 Share Posted December 26, 2023 4 minutes ago, BP said: Are you making an upsale with legendary JN poster JW? Not sure what that means but I think the answer is no. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post BP Posted December 26, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted December 26, 2023 21 hours ago, joewilly12 said: I’m 60 …Haven’t had a beer since early July never drank hard liquor in my life haven’t smoked weed since high school never smoked in my life. no drugs. Been going through a bitter divorce for 2 years. What’s wrong with me? Besides the orthopedic pains from 5 surgeries I feel like sh*t. Any ideas? FWIW I had a DOT physical this summer and the doctor said I had the BP of a teenager. 112 over 67 lol I’m 58. I would recommend you start working out and take care of yourself. If you take all your anger out on the weights from the bitterness of your divorce you’ll probably have super human strength. And for the final time, live your life and put this sh*t in your past. Your ex wife is loving your misery. Don’t let her win. 8 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BP Posted December 26, 2023 Share Posted December 26, 2023 1 minute ago, Maxman said: Not sure what that means but I think the answer is no. Not sure what this means, so I’ll ask. What’s a premium gpt membership ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maxman Posted December 26, 2023 Share Posted December 26, 2023 1 minute ago, BP said: Not sure what this means, so I’ll ask. What’s a premium gpt membership ? AI..Chat GPT. The $20 a month plan. If I was feeling run down the doctor is the first place I would go. Chat GPT would be second. 1 1 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BP Posted December 26, 2023 Share Posted December 26, 2023 5 minutes ago, Maxman said: AI..Chat GPT. The $20 a month plan. If I was feeling run down the doctor is the first place I would go. Chat GPT would be second. After I turned 50 I always go to the doctor every year even if I feel great. I have a family history of stroke and heart disease and my older brother had a stent put in at 54 years old. I have too much invested in my retirement to spend it horizontally. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BeaconJet Posted December 26, 2023 Share Posted December 26, 2023 Seems obvious, but go to the doctor and get full bloodwork done. Could be any of a dozen things at 60. And I second the suggestion of working out. Doesn't have to be anything crazy but exercise helps. And honestly, I wouldn't rule out depression after what you've been going through. 2 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SAM SAM HE'S OUR MAN Posted December 26, 2023 Share Posted December 26, 2023 Stress can f-ck you up . Stop watching the Jets . 2 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joewilly12 Posted December 27, 2023 Author Share Posted December 27, 2023 Depression stress anxiety is kicking my ass ….. my children ignored me for Christmas. A friend of the family just told me a little while ago your ex wife is doing everything she can to deter those adult kids from having any relationship with you she sees it as a moral victory and it covers up her cheating so you always look like the bad guy to everyone. She basically wants me dead or in jail. My Dr recommended a multi vitamin today over the phone along with some other suggestions. I’m alone I have nobody for support or help with anything. I went from an active member of 40 years in fire department 35 at my job with many friends to very few. Divorce sucks and people always take woman’s side she’s Satan and a liar. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fantasy Island Posted December 27, 2023 Share Posted December 27, 2023 1 minute ago, joewilly12 said: Depression stress anxiety is kicking my ass ….. my children ignored me for Christmas. A friend of the family just told me a little while ago your ex wife is doing everything she can to deter those adult kids from having any relationship with you she sees it as a moral victory and it covers up her cheating so you always look like the bad guy to everyone. She basically wants me dead or in jail. My Dr recommended a multi vitamin today over the phone along with some other suggestions. I’m alone I have nobody for support or help with anything. I went from an active member of 40 years in fire department 35 at my job with many friends to very few. Divorce sucks and people always take woman’s side she’s Satan and a liar. If they are adults and are not having a relationship with you, then move on. 2 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rhg1084 Posted December 27, 2023 Share Posted December 27, 2023 2 hours ago, joewilly12 said: Depression stress anxiety is kicking my ass ….. my children ignored me for Christmas. A friend of the family just told me a little while ago your ex wife is doing everything she can to deter those adult kids from having any relationship with you she sees it as a moral victory and it covers up her cheating so you always look like the bad guy to everyone. She basically wants me dead or in jail. My Dr recommended a multi vitamin today over the phone along with some other suggestions. I’m alone I have nobody for support or help with anything. I went from an active member of 40 years in fire department 35 at my job with many friends to very few. Divorce sucks and people always take woman’s side she’s Satan and a liar. I have a 92 year old uncle who recently just got a new girlfriend from his little old age community he has down in Florida. Moral of the story is you’re never too old to enjoy yourself and live life. Join a gym, go for walks, create an online dating profile. Get out there and live life. Don’t let your depression consume you. Life is short don’t waste it over a bitter divorce. Move on. 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SAM SAM HE'S OUR MAN Posted December 27, 2023 Share Posted December 27, 2023 8 hours ago, joewilly12 said: Depression stress anxiety is kicking my ass ….. my children ignored me for Christmas. A friend of the family just told me a little while ago your ex wife is doing everything she can to deter those adult kids from having any relationship with you she sees it as a moral victory and it covers up her cheating so you always look like the bad guy to everyone. She basically wants me dead or in jail. My Dr recommended a multi vitamin today over the phone along with some other suggestions. I’m alone I have nobody for support or help with anything. I went from an active member of 40 years in fire department 35 at my job with many friends to very few. Divorce sucks and people always take woman’s side she’s Satan and a liar. Go back to work at the fire department . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joewilly12 Posted December 27, 2023 Author Share Posted December 27, 2023 4 hours ago, SAM SAM HE'S OUR MAN said: Go back to work at the fire department . It’s volunteer and it’s best I don’t. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SAM SAM HE'S OUR MAN Posted December 27, 2023 Share Posted December 27, 2023 52 minutes ago, joewilly12 said: It’s volunteer and it’s best I don’t. Then volunteer somewhere else . Maybe an old folks home . 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dunnie Posted December 30, 2023 Share Posted December 30, 2023 I’m 60 …Haven’t had a beer since early July never drank hard liquor in my life haven’t smoked weed since high school never smoked in my life. no drugs. Been going through a bitter divorce for 2 years. What’s wrong with me? Besides the orthopedic pains from 5 surgeries I feel like sh*t. Any ideas? Having suffered major trauma in my experience as a patient.. not a Dr ... Major stress can cause actual physical and neurological damage. Add to that possible depression ... I agree .. see your Dr and possibly therapy.This doesn't cover the angst following this team brings.The poster the suggested working out was offering excellent advice.I am not a Dr .. just offering thoughts.Sent from my Pixel 7 using Tapatalk 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HighPitch Posted January 4 Share Posted January 4 Dude are you fat? Have u gained weight? You never said Dude youre getting better every day. Time heals all wounds. Just think about the next girl you date. The excitement! A couple of dates and oh boy when will it happen? Unzipping her jeans, pulling her panties down. Seeing them pubes for the first time…. or no pubes?! What will she do? Will she swallow? Ass play??? omg dude your best days r ahead Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JetsfaninNorthHollywood Posted January 5 Share Posted January 5 On 12/25/2023 at 11:43 PM, BP said: FWIW I had a DOT physical this summer and the doctor said I had the BP of a teenager. 112 over 67 lol I’m 58. I would recommend you start working out and take care of yourself. If you take all your anger out on the weights from the bitterness of your divorce you’ll probably have super human strength. And for the final time, live your life and put this sh*t in your past. Your ex wife is loving your misery. Don’t let her win. Not just weights, how about taking some boxing classes, or just hitting the bag? Heck go to a batting cage and smack the balls around. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post chirorob Posted January 6 Popular Post Share Posted January 6 On 12/25/2023 at 3:52 AM, joewilly12 said: I’m 60 …Haven’t had a beer since early July never drank hard liquor in my life haven’t smoked weed since high school never smoked in my life. no drugs. Been going through a bitter divorce for 2 years. What’s wrong with me? Besides the orthopedic pains from 5 surgeries I feel like sh*t. Any ideas? Blood sugar can make you feel that way 5 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Popular Post Jet_Engine1 Posted January 9 Popular Post Share Posted January 9 On 1/4/2024 at 6:46 PM, HighPitch said: Dude are you fat? Have u gained weight? You never said Dude youre getting better every day. Time heals all wounds. Just think about the next girl you date. The excitement! A couple of dates and oh boy when will it happen? Unzipping her jeans, pulling her panties down. Seeing them pubes for the first time…. or no pubes?! What will she do? Will she swallow? Ass play??? omg dude your best days r ahead Bro. He's 60, not 16. 5 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HighPitch Posted January 9 Share Posted January 9 5 hours ago, Jet_Engine1 said: Bro. He's 60, not 16. so what? that burn never leaves you I am happily married but its kind of a bummer that I will never expwerience that special joy again. knock on wood. so, you believe me about the turkey thing right? you better Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CTJetsFan Posted January 9 Share Posted January 9 Lots of good suggestions (ex. get blood work, exercising) and lots of possibilities (stress, depression, blood sugar). Definitely start with getting some blood work done. One I didn't see mentioned is sleep apnea. May be worth getting tested for that too. I went thru a bad divorce about 17 years ago. You'll get thru it and life will get better. Stay strong. 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Crusher Posted January 9 Share Posted January 9 On 12/25/2023 at 4:52 AM, joewilly12 said: I’m 60 …Haven’t had a beer since early July never drank hard liquor in my life haven’t smoked weed since high school never smoked in my life. no drugs. Been going through a bitter divorce for 2 years. What’s wrong with me? Besides the orthopedic pains from 5 surgeries I feel like sh*t. Any ideas? @Bronx 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Maxman Posted January 9 Popular Post Share Posted January 9 On 12/26/2023 at 11:18 PM, joewilly12 said: Depression stress anxiety is kicking my ass ….. my children ignored me for Christmas. A friend of the family just told me a little while ago your ex wife is doing everything she can to deter those adult kids from having any relationship with you she sees it as a moral victory and it covers up her cheating so you always look like the bad guy to everyone. She basically wants me dead or in jail. My Dr recommended a multi vitamin today over the phone along with some other suggestions. I’m alone I have nobody for support or help with anything. I went from an active member of 40 years in fire department 35 at my job with many friends to very few. Divorce sucks and people always take woman’s side she’s Satan and a liar. Dude I would move. Pick someplace new. Dare I say Florida. Just start over and have some fun again. 5 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Maxman Posted January 9 Popular Post Share Posted January 9 On 1/4/2024 at 6:46 PM, HighPitch said: Dude are you fat? Have u gained weight? You never said Dude youre getting better every day. Time heals all wounds. Just think about the next girl you date. The excitement! A couple of dates and oh boy when will it happen? Unzipping her jeans, pulling her panties down. Seeing them pubes for the first time…. or no pubes?! What will she do? Will she swallow? Ass play??? omg dude your best days r ahead This is so over the line. But I laughed so I have no choice but to ignore it and act like I didn't see it lol. 5 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Crusher Posted January 9 Share Posted January 9 1 minute ago, Maxman said: Dude I would move. Pick someplace new. Dare I say Florida. Just start over and have some fun again. @JustInFudge Joewilly coming to J-ville Gonna need a wingman. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Crusher Posted January 9 Share Posted January 9 1 minute ago, Maxman said: This is so over the line. But I laughed so I have no choice but to ignore it and act like I didn't see it lol. Highpitch genuinely terrifies me, but at times is as funny as anyone. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JustInFudge Posted January 9 Share Posted January 9 19 minutes ago, The Crusher said: @JustInFudge Joewilly coming to J-ville Gonna need a wingman. He can take RJ out and get all the attention. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FTL Jet Fan Posted January 9 Share Posted January 9 Medical aside I would say stress, you have been through the wringer for the past two years. Especially when it comes to a nasty divorce. Like said above maybe get away for a while, maybe a week down in Costa Rica might help. Maybe FL, just to relax get away from all that negativity, shut your brain off the best you can. Just finalized my second divorce, cannabis and booze helped, in moderation of course ( not the most sound medical advice) sometimes you have to do what you can to get by. The Jets just make it worse, I’m sure you understand that. A walk or a bike ride by the beach helps to clear your head, at least briefly it’s better than obsessing over this sh*t over and over. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Crusher Posted January 9 Share Posted January 9 20 minutes ago, JustInFudge said: He can take RJ out and get all the attention. Crushlove concept #143 Babies and Puppies bring the ladies. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jetsfan80 Posted January 9 Share Posted January 9 1 hour ago, Maxman said: This is so over the line. But I laughed so I have no choice but to ignore it and act like I didn't see it lol. It’s so crass but also full of hope it’s kinda beautiful 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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