joewilly12 Posted June 24, 2022 Share Posted June 24, 2022 Keep me in your thoughts and prayers. Thanks 3 10 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Greenbloodblitz Posted June 24, 2022 Share Posted June 24, 2022 Sorry to hear about this bro keep your chin up. Women are vindictive make sure you get a good lawyer. If you ever need to talk message me. I got two baby mamas. I've been in court for almost 20 years. I got experience~ Good luck bro and again I'm sorry. It's not easy stuff. 2 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post peebag Posted June 24, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted June 24, 2022 Don't worry brah, you always have the New York Jets to fall back on! 6 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Biggs Posted June 27, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted June 27, 2022 Marrying the wrong person is even worse. 3 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post The Crusher Posted June 27, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted June 27, 2022 20 minutes ago, Biggs said: Marrying the wrong person is even worse. It’s really how long it takes to know that you did, that really does you in. People always make a big deal about a bride standing a groom up at the altar. If you look at it in the long term, it’s literally likely the kindest thing she could have done. 4 2 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Biggs Posted June 27, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted June 27, 2022 6 minutes ago, The Crusher said: It’s really how long it takes to know that you did, that really does you in. People always make a big deal about a bride standing a groom up at the altar. If you look at it in the long term, it’s literally likely the kindest thing she could have done. If you're in a crappy marriage Divorce can be wonderfully liberating and give both people a chance to find real love and live a great life. Divorce isn't horrible anymore than marriage is wonderful. It's simply a result that can be life changing in either a positive or negative way. The good and bad are both dependent on how we deal with it. It's simply a choice or a series of choices. 9 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post The Crusher Posted June 27, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted June 27, 2022 12 hours ago, Biggs said: If you're in a crappy marriage Divorce can be wonderfully liberating and give both people a chance to find real love and live a great life. Divorce isn't horrible anymore than marriage is wonderful. It's simply a result that can be life changing in either a positive or negative way. The good and bad are both dependent on how we deal with it. It's simply a choice or a series of choices. Agreed. Took me 9 years of a horrible one and brutal divorce to learn that. Been married for 22 years now and I fall in love with my wife more every day. 13 5 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post nycdan Posted June 27, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted June 27, 2022 2 hours ago, The Crusher said: It’s really how long it takes to know that you did, that really does you in. People always make a big deal about a bride standing a groom up at the altar. If you look at it in the long term, it’s literally likely the kindest thing she could have done. My first engagement I walked away three days before the wedding. Smartest thing I could have done. That marriage would not have lasted a year. Much cheaper getting out before the big day. She kept the ring. I kept the honeymoon tickets. Had a very interesting time being a single guy on vacation in an obvious honeymoon locale. Every new husband was dying to have beers with me and every one of their new wives didn't want me within fifty feet of them. 3 10 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post joewilly12s Ex Wife Posted June 27, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted June 27, 2022 5 hours ago, Biggs said: Marrying the wrong person is even worse. Preach. 3 8 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SAM SAM HE'S OUR MAN Posted June 27, 2022 Share Posted June 27, 2022 5 hours ago, The Crusher said: Agreed. Took me 9 years or a horrible one and brutal divorce to learn that. Been married for 22 years now and I fall in love with my wife more every day. 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HawkeyeJet Posted June 27, 2022 Share Posted June 27, 2022 49 minutes ago, joewilly12s Ex Wife said: Preach. Maybe I’m out of the loop but or missing and inside joke but I’m fairly certain the OP is having a legitimate very difficult time. If so, come on. That’s not particularly funny. 3 7 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jetsfan80 Posted June 27, 2022 Share Posted June 27, 2022 6 hours ago, The Crusher said: It’s really how long it takes to know that you did, that really does you in. People always make a big deal about a bride standing a groom up at the altar. If you look at it in the long term, it’s literally likely the kindest thing she could have done. Well, kinder would have been breaking up long before the wedding costs started flooding in… 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Crusher Posted June 27, 2022 Share Posted June 27, 2022 38 minutes ago, Jetsfan80 said: Well, kinder would have been breaking up long before the wedding costs started flooding in… I was assuming her Dad was paying. hahahaha 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joewilly12 Posted June 27, 2022 Author Share Posted June 27, 2022 The legal system is very flawed when it comes to divorce is all I can say. I waited months for a mediation session and got absolutely nowhere it took 15 minutes for 2 mediators to explain the system but resolve or make any recommendations for any of the issues. My former wife is making this personal and very difficult. Its become more of her paying me back for every disagreement we had in 40 years. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HighPitch Posted June 27, 2022 Share Posted June 27, 2022 8 hours ago, The Crusher said: Agreed. Took me 9 years or a horrible one and brutal divorce to learn that. Been married for 22 years now and I fall in love with my wife more every day. Awww you chubby sexy loverboy so cute 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HighPitch Posted June 27, 2022 Share Posted June 27, 2022 3 hours ago, joewilly12s Ex Wife said: Preach. Oh nooooo thats just wrong your username lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HighPitch Posted June 27, 2022 Share Posted June 27, 2022 5 minutes ago, joewilly12 said: The legal system is very flawed when it comes to divorce is all I can say. I waited months for a mediation session and got absolutely nowhere it took 15 minutes for 2 mediators to explain the system but resolve or make any recommendations for any of the issues. My former wife is making this personal and very difficult. Its become more of her paying me back for every disagreement we had in 40 years. Its tough joewilly. Any major change in life is tough. F her though u will be fine it just takes time. at Some point soon u will b in vegas and sticking it in a sweet 22 year old for $500 your head will explode with delight. Then youll find some normal divorcee and be in the drivers seat again dude be patient 2 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Spoot-Face Posted June 27, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted June 27, 2022 2 minutes ago, HighPitch said: at Some point soon u will b in vegas and sticking it in a sweet 22 year old for $500 your head will explode with delight 11 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Lith Posted June 28, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted June 28, 2022 5 hours ago, joewilly12s Ex Wife said: Preach. I think this has been taken far enough. This account is banned. Please do not create another similar account. 6 2 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
southparkcpa Posted June 28, 2022 Share Posted June 28, 2022 11 hours ago, The Crusher said: Agreed. Took me 9 years or a horrible one and brutal divorce to learn that. Been married for 22 years now and I fall in love with my wife more every day. She likes fat guys????? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post The Crusher Posted June 28, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted June 28, 2022 9 minutes ago, southparkcpa said: She likes fat guys????? If she doesn’t she hides it really well. 1 5 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nolder Posted June 28, 2022 Share Posted June 28, 2022 3 hours ago, joewilly12 said: The legal system is very flawed when it comes to divorce is all I can say. I waited months for a mediation session and got absolutely nowhere it took 15 minutes for 2 mediators to explain the system but resolve or make any recommendations for any of the issues. My former wife is making this personal and very difficult. Its become more of her paying me back for every disagreement we had in 40 years. Mediation is 99.9% a waste of time the court forces you into because they are overbooked and don't want to take your case if there's even a .01% chance they don't have to. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Green Ghost Posted June 28, 2022 Share Posted June 28, 2022 3 hours ago, Spoot-Face said: What’s your problem with 22year olds, Beav? 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spoot-Face Posted June 28, 2022 Share Posted June 28, 2022 3 minutes ago, Green Ghost said: What’s your problem with 22year olds, Beav? Nothing at all. But that was a cringey ass post, lol. Only you're allowed to do that, in my book. 1 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jimmy 2 Times Posted June 28, 2022 Share Posted June 28, 2022 7 hours ago, joewilly12s Ex Wife said: Preach. Holy cow, I just shot water out of my nose. Sorry Joe. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
munchmemory Posted June 28, 2022 Share Posted June 28, 2022 19 hours ago, Spoot-Face said: Top five gif ever. LMFAO. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joewilly12 Posted June 30, 2022 Author Share Posted June 30, 2022 I sit back where I’m living trying to survive live another day. My wife has created a world of hate around me with family friends. I wish there was a way to silence her legally from slandering me and partaking in defamation of character comments. She was denied a permanent restraining order and has been out for more blood since that day. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SAM SAM HE'S OUR MAN Posted June 30, 2022 Share Posted June 30, 2022 7 hours ago, joewilly12 said: I wish there was a way to silence her legally from slandering me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Bronx Posted June 30, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted June 30, 2022 You need to start focusing on your mental and physical health and let the lawyers handle the rest. At this point, try to enjoy life to the fullest and steer away from negative energies. 8 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post The Crusher Posted June 30, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted June 30, 2022 29 minutes ago, Bronx said: You need to start focusing on your mental and physical health and let the lawyers handle the rest. At this point, try to enjoy life to the fullest and steer away from negative energies. Yep, instead of swimming in the clear blue waters like you he’s bathing in the cesspool of despair the situation has created. 8 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post maury77 Posted June 30, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted June 30, 2022 I've been a divorce attorney in New Jersey (its not the only area I practice) since 2006, so hopefully this can be helpful: 1. Divorce is an extraordinarily difficult process for people and I always advise new clients to at least explore speaking to a therapist. Personally, I've been going to a therapist for a few years and it helps. If therapy isn't your thing, try working out, meditating, etc. anything you can do to deal with the extraordinary stress you are going to be dealing with. 2. https://www.nj.com/politics/2022/06/nj-judge-shortage-reaching-crisis-level-with-huge-delays-for-thousands-this-is-catastrophic.html What is happening in New Jersey with the shortage of judges is an atrocity. In Hudson County, I have people that can't even schedule a date to enter their divorce because of the lack of staffing. 3. I'm a believer in mediation. It isn't always going to work, but I think it is important for the parties to get the perspective of a neutral third party so that your settlement expectations can be more realistic. The trick is to get a good mediator that will move the parties towards a settlement instead of just serving as a messenger back and forth between the parties. 6 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Biggs Posted June 30, 2022 Share Posted June 30, 2022 18 minutes ago, maury77 said: I've been a divorce attorney in New Jersey (its not the only area I practice) since 2006, so hopefully this can be helpful: 1. Divorce is an extraordinarily difficult process for people and I always advise new clients to at least explore speaking to a therapist. Personally, I've been going to a therapist for a few years and it helps. If therapy isn't your thing, try working out, meditating, etc. anything you can do to deal with the extraordinary stress you are going to be dealing with. 2. https://www.nj.com/politics/2022/06/nj-judge-shortage-reaching-crisis-level-with-huge-delays-for-thousands-this-is-catastrophic.html What is happening in New Jersey with the shortage of judges is an atrocity. In Hudson County, I have people that can't even schedule a date to enter their divorce because of the lack of staffing. 3. I'm a believer in mediation. It isn't always going to work, but I think it is important for the parties to get the perspective of a neutral third party so that your settlement expectations can be more realistic. The trick is to get a good mediator that will move the parties towards a settlement instead of just serving as a messenger back and forth between the parties. I was in mediation one time not for divorce on a business matter. Both parties were represented by attorneys and it wasn't binding. During the initial phase it started to get personal on their side. I asked the mediator if I had to actually be in the room. Could my attorney deal with it for me and walked out. The other side quickly settled. I didn't get what I deserved and they didn't get away scott free. Neither side was made whole by the process. Over all that seems like a good result. This was in Federal court with a very professional mediator. Not sure the State and local courts that deal with divorce have that kind of pro to deal with. I'm sure it makes a huge difference. 2 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joewilly12 Posted June 30, 2022 Author Share Posted June 30, 2022 I waited 3 months for ESP mediation it was a complete disaster 2 mediators offered zero recommendations or suggestions it lasted all of 15 minutes. At least they could have done was offered some guidance. My lawyer has expressed to me getting a court date would be very difficult and probably not happen for awhile. My wife initiated the divorce if she wants it bad enough she will have to improve her offers and attitude or else I’m willing to wait for trial not giving in I need want what’s fair I worked too damn hard for everything. She wants me to concede and I’m sure is surprised I haven’t by now but her offers are that bad. 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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